Seeing the person you love with somebody else hurts

@ThatDisha (4010)
India
September 19, 2021 2:01am CST
I try to become everyone's shoulder to cry on, but in need you who becomes mine. Nobody. I may not show but inside i have feelings too, i may not cry easily but just a simple hug melts me. Today i saw him again, him being unaware of it. Maybe this was for a last time, i don't want to see his face again all the promises just got shattered, he was with another girl, sitting close to each other, smiling and holding hands, she was taking the seat which belonged to me and nobody else while i sit alone in my car. I wasn't expecting anything from him but it still hurts. It hurts to know he forgot all this too soon and moved on with another girl.
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@arunima25 (85442)
• Bangalore, India
19 Sep 21
It would definitely hurt. But you have to consider his viewpoint too. You were not ready to commit and he chose to move on. We can't call it cheating. Trust me! It would hurt a lot right now but maybe it is for everyone's good.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
19 Sep 21
I know, I wasn't being cheated on but the last thing he promised that he won't be committed to anybody else even in my absence got broken and it hurted my soul..he forgot all about it too soon I am fine now thank you!
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@arunima25 (85442)
• Bangalore, India
20 Sep 21
@ThatDisha Once he is out of that relationship, such promises hold no ground. They are just said in heat of the moment. Both of you are too young and have bright futures and a lot happening in the coming times. Good that you have overcome it and now can focus on better things.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
20 Sep 21
@arunima25 true i should not think about it, i should focus on my own work
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
20 Sep 21
You should not get hurt because it was you who ended the relationship so it's not his fault as he found someone else in place of you.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
20 Sep 21
@ThatDisha but I would say it's your fault not is his.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
20 Sep 21
@sjvg1976 yes, it wasn't anybody's fault..that was the situation i couldn't think of anything else then taking this step Happy that he is doing fine now, i just got an ache in my heart on seeing him with other person as i somewhere still wanted to get along with him after we get settled in our carrier
@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
20 Sep 21
I know, but it hurts when you see that happening in front of your eyes
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
19 Sep 21
I'm sorry...
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
19 Sep 21
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Sep 21
Chillax dear, that's life we have to face. I also had experienced heart broken because of love. Love truly kills our sweet dreams but it can't kill our whole being for we deserve another chance of love. Oh love!
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
20 Sep 21
thank you
@DianneN (247099)
• United States
19 Sep 21
I’m so sorry. It’s part of life. Just move on and don’t carry that baggage. Not worth it.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
20 Sep 21
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@Kanubanu (3094)
20 Sep 21
Don't be sad. If he doesn't care about you, just kick him.
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@Kanubanu (3094)
21 Sep 21
@ThatDisha Find any new friend , who will be appropriate match for you.
@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
21 Sep 21
Haha I wish I could but I don't want to
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
19 Sep 21
That's life...move on
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
19 Sep 21
@YUSRIL10 (197)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 21
it's very painful, but you can't go on in a sad state