You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have / myLot

Malaysia

October 4, 2021 9:36am CST

A close friend of mine lost her husband due to Covid. She is still young, around 24 years old. She also have a five years old daughter. I messaged her today. She told me she's quitting her job and get one near home. That way it's easier to watch over her daughter and mother in law. Her father in law also died because of Covid before her husband. It's going to be a tough journey for her. I can only wish she's strong enough to go through it. She said it's going to be sad as she can't meet me easily anymore. It's not the end. We can still try to meet up if we want to.

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17 responses

Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (40586)

• United States

4 Oct 21

That's so sad. I pray she and her little girl will stay well. Very heartbreaking.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

4 Oct 21

Thank you. I wish the best for her too. Her daughter still didn't understand her dad has passed away.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (40586)

• United States

4 Oct 21

@prinzcy It's so sad the little girl is too young to have many memories of her dad.

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Zhang jing xuan

@zhangxueying (2945)

• China

4 Oct 21

It's so sad. I hope she gets better

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

4 Oct 21

Thank you.

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ElusiveButterfly

@ElusiveButterfly (45939)

• United States

4 Oct 21

Give her time to let her heart heal. She will one day be okay with being around others.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

4 Oct 21

Thank you. I hope so too.

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (86834)

• United States

9 Oct 21

Oh dear she has a hard journey ahead..I wish her the very best..it is not easy. Gods blessing.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

9 Oct 21

Thank you!

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (86834)

• United States

9 Oct 21

@prinzcy Welcome

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Simone

@Janet357 (75656)

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4 Oct 21

that is very sad. A young woman who got widowed at a young.age. May God.help her.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

4 Oct 21

Thank you.

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Scott Andersen

@DocAndersen (54407)

• United States

8 Oct 21

there is power in people, when they decide to do things!

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

9 Oct 21

We human can be amazing at times.

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Scott Andersen

@DocAndersen (54407)

• United States

9 Oct 21

@prinzcy that is very true - we rise above sometimes.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (130072)

• India

4 Oct 21

You are right In order to survive one takes whatever way is available.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

4 Oct 21

She's a strong person. I'm sure she'll be fine in time. I just need to support her the best I could.

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rebelann1949

@rebelann (111239)

• El Paso, Texas

4 Oct 21

I am so sorry to hear about your friend, hopefully she will be able to cope with her loss for the sake of her daughter.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

5 Oct 21

I can feel she's trying to be strong. I'll support her any way I can.

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rebelann1949

@rebelann (111239)

• El Paso, Texas

5 Oct 21

You are a good friend for her.

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prashu

@prashu228 (37526)

• India

4 Oct 21

Really sad. . hope God give her strength...

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

5 Oct 21

Thank you.

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prashu

@prashu228 (37526)

• India

5 Oct 21

@prinzcy

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@DaddyEvil (137142)

• United States

5 Oct 21

I'm so sorry. I hope everything else turns out well for her.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

5 Oct 21

I hope so too. I'm not really good with comforting someone with words. So I can only support the best I could.

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@DaddyEvil (137142)

• United States

5 Oct 21

@prinzcy Most people aren't good at comforting with words. I'm sure you'll do just fine. All your friend really needs is to know that you care.

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Fleur

@Fleura (29200)

• United Kingdom

4 Oct 21

Being strong under those circumstances is pretty much the only option. I hope she can manage. I'm sure that knowing you are there to chat to, even if you can't meet in person, will also be a help to her.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

5 Oct 21

I can only support her. Not much that I can do for her.

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Fleur

@Fleura (29200)

• United Kingdom

5 Oct 21

@prinzcy Sometimes just having someone to talk to helps : )

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DianneN

@DianneN (247105)

• United States

6 Oct 21

How awful for her. I hope she and her daughter stay well.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

7 Oct 21

I hope they'll be able to go through future challenges.

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DianneN

@DianneN (247105)

• United States

7 Oct 21

@prinzcy So do I

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Thelma

@thelme55 (76481)

• Germany

4 Oct 21

I am sorry about her situation. So sad. She will be strong for the sake of her daughter.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

4 Oct 21

I'm sure she will too.

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@freelancermariagrace (27219)

• Philippines

5 Oct 21

That is very sad. God bless her!

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

5 Oct 21

Thank you.

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much2say

@much2say (53944)

• Los Angeles, California

4 Oct 21

Sorry to hear about your friend's husband and father in law. I truly hope she and her family will get through this. Your title - this is something my mom has told me all my life.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

5 Oct 21

I hope she'll always be strong. There's not much I can do for you. I love the phrase. This time it's fitting for her.

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