Our Relationship - Day Two
By Courtney
@Courtlynn (66921)
United States
November 30, 2021 11:07am CST
How easy or hard do you find asking for help when you need it?
I guess this depends.. on his mood, his body pains, and what it is.
As alot of times I have to do things myself, and even have to do things for him because he either can't or won't, and then will complain until I decide to do it to shut him up. But he does have his moments where he helps me.. sometimes by doing the trash, getting me something while I'm cooking or cleaning, or by getting and / or doing his own laundry to make one less load for me to do.
There's some other stuff to, I just can't think of them at the moment since I'm not even fully awake yet.
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@Marilynda1225 (79731)
• United States
30 Nov 21
It's a shame that someone so young has so many body pains and aches. It's nice that he helps when he can but it still seems as if you have a lot to do on your shoulders.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
30 Nov 21
Guess it's a "being the woman" thing, i dont know. Doesnt really bother me so much, long as he does help when can or when its really needed
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
30 Nov 21
Nothing wrong with that. Whatever works for you
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@snowy22315 (169966)
• United States
30 Nov 21
It is good he helps you sometimes. Perhaps if he got up and did more things he would have less time to worry about his body pains, and in fact they might go away.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
30 Nov 21
Unfortunately that doesn't help much. He's one who likes to exercise and does so often, and even scretches few times a day, and yet is still in pain all the time. 
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@snowy22315 (169966)
• United States
30 Nov 21
@Courtlynn I wonder why..Maybe he needs to see a chiropractor. Do his parents have problems like this too?
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
30 Nov 21
@snowy22315 no they don't. He's gone to one and only helped for like two hours afterwards.
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@just4him (306236)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Nov 21
If you have a good relationship, it should be easy to ask for help. If not, then it becomes more difficult. If so-so, then you never know when asking will be beneficial.
I always relied on myself. I had a difficult relationship. That's why it didn't last.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
30 Nov 21
Even when we were at our best i hardly got help with anything lol. Even less than now.
@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Nov 21
Any two people have their differences, the other person doesn't consider acceptable. My brother Bill is a nice person. Nobody visits him, because his home is a filthy mess. Noone can stand the foul smell! Then, he thinks noone cares! I told him the smell makes me sick to my stomach and he got mad
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
30 Nov 21
Thats a shame. Wonder why he doesn't clean it
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Nov 21
@Courtlynn And he doesn't stay clean himself! Our family always lived clean, he doesn't:(
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@Andini (3211)
• Indonesia
30 Nov 21
@Courtlynn all the best for your relationship 
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