Some Days Never Change

@CarolDM (203396)
Nashville, Tennessee
December 9, 2021 10:46am CST
Sunshine today. Lots of birds at the feeder. Cats are enjoying seeing them. The Dude is talking to them. Brendel is snoozing now. Missing Dustin today and always. Many years ago on this day, I lost him. Lots of good memories to keep me going. He is now forever 16. Photo is mine.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
9 Dec 21
It breaks my heart for you and Dustin both of you Carol. Yet, somehow, I know he is close by you and yet high, very high in the sky in Heaven. This day I am waving to Dustin too RIP
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• United States
9 Dec 21
@CarolDM Yes sadly
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
I hope his close and I will see him soon.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Dec 21
If I had the power, I'd bring Dustin back to you in two seconds or less! That beautiful young man, at the center of your world:) How can I make you feel better? I can't, this is God's omnipotent job.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Dec 21
@CarolDM Looking back is painful, I know this is true
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
I would as well. If only.
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@sulynsi (2669)
• Canada
9 Dec 21
Losing a child - I am so sorry for your loss Words are totally inadequate.
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@sulynsi (2669)
• Canada
9 Dec 21
@CarolDM This post made me look more closely at your avatar. I now see how meaningful it is - a beautiful and touching tribute.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
Thank you.
@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
@sulynsi Thanks for taking the time. He is just a baby in my avatar.
@Ronrybs (21497)
• London, England
9 Dec 21
Once I give Mr H his meal, I can hear the birds, especially magpies, coming down to clean up.
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@Ronrybs (21497)
• London, England
10 Dec 21
@CarolDM Indeed, He has decided he likes the big donut on the ground floor
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
That is good and I hope Mr H is still enjoying his home.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
@Ronrybs Good to hear.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 Dec 21
I’m sorry. I know your son is always in your heart as my son is in mine.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 Dec 21
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
Thanks.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
10 Dec 21
that is a great picture and forever 16 is a good memory to hold on to. as always, so sorry.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
Thank you. His last school photo.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
10 Dec 21
@CarolDM oh wow, that brought a tear to my eye.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Dec 21
So sorry sweetheart. Just know you will see him again one day and ask God why he had to have your son also.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Dec 21
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
I hope so, thank you Bonnie.
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@rebelann (117240)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Dec 21
My deepest condolences for your loss.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
Thanks very much.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
9 Dec 21
Such a difficult day for you, Carol. Hugssss!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
Thank you.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
10 Dec 21
@CarolDM you're welcome
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@xFiacre (14789)
• Ireland
9 Dec 21
@caroldm What a difficult day Carol. How have you coped?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
December is hard all month. Too many losses. Honestly I never thought I could go on without him. Many days I have given up. No reason to go on. But I feel somehow he sends me strength to get through perhaps.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Dec 21
@CarolDM I am sure he does.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
12 Dec 21
I know the anniversary of losing Dustin is always so difficult. What a handsome young man...so heartbreaking. Love and hugs, prayers for God's loving comfort.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Dec 21
Thanks, his last school photo here.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
9 Dec 21
Huge hugs sent your way today.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
10 Dec 21
@CarolDM of course.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
Thank you so much.
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@Dena91 (17039)
• United States
10 Dec 21
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
Thanks Dena.
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@LindaOHio (222417)
• United States
10 Dec 21
There is nothing that I can say that will ease your pain except to say that you will see him again one day. Try and keep the good memories forefront in your mind. Sending virtual hugs.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
Thank you.
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@AmbiePam (120841)
• United States
9 Dec 21
I wish I had words for you, but I know words are pretty useless.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
No words are needed. Thank you Amber.
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@FourWalls (86740)
• United States
9 Dec 21
Praying for you today.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
Thanks and you as well.
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@Juliaacv (56282)
• Canada
9 Dec 21
I am sorry for the pain this date brings. Sending you hugs to comfort.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
Thank you.
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@Edsamacos (557)
• Philippines
9 Dec 21
I am sorry about this. . I know you had a great time with your son when he was still alive.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 21
Good memories.
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@Janet357 (75638)
10 Dec 21
And a handsome yoing boy. How old would have he been now
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@Babino (5756)
• Morocco
9 Dec 21
Your thoughts and prayers are reaching him. Always and forever alive in your heart.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 21
Thank you.
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