erasing history

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Erasing History

@dawnald (85137)

Shingle Springs, California

January 19, 2022 11:14pm CST

Kind of... I'm going back through and reposting my pictures that were posted elsewhere (Multiply) on Facebook. Only there are pictures in there that include my ex husband. Tony is quite sensitive about anything to do with him. So I am very much avoiding posting any photos that include him. On the other hand, the kids would probably like it if I posted photos of him, and might feel like this is "cancel culture" and "erasing history". Maybe a good compromise would be to send the pictures that have their dad in them to the kids, and then they can post them if they want. What do you think?

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7 responses

@celticeagle (189889)

• Boise, Idaho

20 Jan 22

What's best for you? Yes, compromise is always a good option.

@dawnald (85137)

• Shingle Springs, California

20 Jan 22

I'd say that the compromise is best. :-)

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@celticeagle (189889)

• Boise, Idaho

21 Jan 22

@dawnald ......Good choice.

@Faster16 (3248)

• Indonesia

20 Jan 22

better get rid of everything about your ex, it's trash

@dawnald (85137)

• Shingle Springs, California

20 Jan 22

Don't you think out children might want them?

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@Faster16 (3248)

• Indonesia

21 Jan 22

@dawnald That's another thing that could be an exception

@BarBaraPrz (51828)

• St. Catharines, Ontario

20 Jan 22

Sounds like a plan.

@dawnald (85137)

• Shingle Springs, California

20 Jan 22

Yup.

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changjiangzhibin89

@changjiangzhibin89 (17242)

• China

20 Jan 22

It is a good idea to send the photos to kids.The way the ball is in kids' court.

@dawnald (85137)

• Shingle Springs, California

20 Jan 22

Yup, and not my problem any more

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@RebeccasFarm (91297)

• United States

20 Jan 22

I think your idea is a good one.

@dawnald (85137)

• Shingle Springs, California

20 Jan 22

Yep. Now I actually have to do it.

@JudyEv (382240)

• Rockingham, Australia

20 Jan 22

I think that is an excellent compromise. I'm sure such decisions are difficult sometimes.

@dawnald (85137)

• Shingle Springs, California

20 Jan 22

Indeed they can be

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@jstory07 (148734)

• Roseburg, Oregon

20 Jan 22

I think you should send the pictures to your kids.

@dawnald (85137)

• Shingle Springs, California

20 Jan 22

Me too