Cried At Work This Evening

@flapiz (22402)

United Kingdom

February 12, 2022 8:18pm CST

It was so embarrassing but I think I'm really cracking. I'm so nervous for my talk with my boyfriend tomorrow I feel like it's going to be bad news. And today I asked the nurse in charge if I can be sick for later's night shift. Im worried I won't be mentally fit to nurse someone. My life is so governed by my heart I worry I would make a mistake.

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Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine

@mythociate (21437)

• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

13 Feb 22

It's gonna be alright. It's just like when you tell a patient you're gonna have something to tell them (results of a test or something)--there's a chance it could be good, there's a chance it could be bad. Can you tell us what he said that you're nervous about? Either way, I'll remind you that the only thing anyone loves is 'themselves' ... not "narcissistically," but rather you love 'who you are when you're around your lover.'

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

He told me he's not sure about us and he's wondering if it's him who's wrong or us.

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Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine

@mythociate (21437)

• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

13 Feb 22

@flapiz Have you thought about seeing a couples' therapist?

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

@mythociate We aren't married but I'd love to. But at this point I'm not even sure he's willing to see one.

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@sinari (4997)

• Indonesia

13 Feb 22

I hope your mood improves, and you return to being cheerful and smiling happily. Stay excited.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

Thank you. I hope so too. I don't like being sad.

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@sinari (4997)

• Indonesia

14 Feb 22

@flapiz You are welcome. I'm glad to know. Happy heart is a medicine. But a broken spirit will dry up the bones.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

14 Feb 22

@sinari I know I had broken spirit for 3 days now and I think my body is so battered. The only thing I could think about is self preservation and prioritising myself over my love life.

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@kaylachan (57636)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

13 Feb 22

Take a deep breath, I am sure it's not as bad as you're thinking.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

I am so much governed by my heart if it does not work out I'm going to be shattered. I already feel very much abandoned at the moment.

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@LadyDuck (458006)

• Switzerland

13 Feb 22

You were right to ask to be sick. Try to rest, keep calm, try to be positive.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

I am still hopeful I can come to work later but if I'm not well enough I will not come as I need to prioritise myself above anything else.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

@LadyDuck Part of me wants to now but we are so short staffed. I'm really hoping I can mentally cope with this.

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@LadyDuck (458006)

• Switzerland

13 Feb 22

@flapiz - Take your day off and wait until you have talked with him.

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@yoalldudes (35040)

• Philippines

13 Feb 22

All I can give is a virtual hug. What confuses me is why on Valentine's day?

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

It can't be helped if that was what he felt. He did prepare things for me too. I think our time together this week led to it somehow.

@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

@yoalldudes I've got my family to hold on to no matter what.

@yoalldudes (35040)

• Philippines

13 Feb 22

@flapiz I believe in you. You are a young, beautiful and strong woman. Life always put us in a position where we have to find ourselves. I hope you have something to hold on to whatever happens.

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@Nakitakona (56302)

• Philippines

13 Feb 22

Everyone makes a mistake. No one is perfect. But you can control your emotion. It's what you think you are. So think positive. Do away with negative thoughts.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

I am trying to by speaking to positive people. It seems to work. The problem is my sadness comes in waves.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

14 Feb 22

@Nakitakona Thank you very much. I am trying to be brave and pull through this.

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@Nakitakona (56302)

• Philippines

14 Feb 22

@flapiz That's a part of your life. You may overcome them. God is just a prayer away.

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@sjvg1976 (41131)

• Delhi, India

13 Feb 22

Don't be upset or overthink everything is going to be fine. If your boyfriend wants a breakup let him be. He should do it as there is no use to be in a stressful relationship, I wish God gives strength to you to bear the pain you may be undergoing at the moment.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

Yeah after talking to my mother I feel a lot better. I deserve someone who is sure of me. I'm waiting for him to settle and tell me what he wants.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

@sjvg1976 I know I planned to wait for a week but I think it's time to rip the band aid.

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@sjvg1976 (41131)

• Delhi, India

13 Feb 22

@flapiz dont delay it.

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@jstory07 (134458)

• Roseburg, Oregon

13 Feb 22

Just take it easy and do not worry.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

Thank you. I'm trying.

Mildred Tabitha

@mildredtabitha (16052)

• Nairobi, Kenya

13 Feb 22

Maybe he plans to propose. I remember a story of a man who invited a girl on a date. Then he told her he doesn't want her to be his girlfriend anymore. She started crying and asking him why. He said it was because he wanted her to be his wife. Then he proposed.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

I don't think this is the case Mildred. It's quite a cruel way to do it.

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Mildred Tabitha

@mildredtabitha (16052)

• Nairobi, Kenya

14 Feb 22

@flapiz alright. I hope the best for you.

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@reti_9 (386)

• Philippines

13 Feb 22

Its gonna be alright cousin. You can talk to me if you want to, I will always listen. You'll be fine.

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@flapiz (22402)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 22

Thank you so much. I know eventually I'll be fine but at the moment I just really need a straight answer.

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• Philippines

13 Feb 22

Cousin @flapiz I understand.

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