I Told My Mum

@flapiz (22402)
United Kingdom
February 13, 2022 8:36am CST
I was trying to spare my mum from heartache as I was hopeful I could fix it without getting involved but I guess mother knows best. She's been trying to check on me since yesterday like she new and I finally cracked and told her my relationship isn't going well. Somehow there is something very comforting about letting it all out to her. I'm still very sad but I feel stronger. There's power in a mother's love.
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Ruby Hawk
@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
15 Feb 22
I’m so glad your mother could comfort you. Take care of yourself. If your relationship isn’t going well, get out of it.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 22
I am giving him space to process what he's undergoing but well if it does not work out I'm kinda now okay with it thanks to my mother's reassurance.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 22
@RubyHawk No matter what age I think I'll always, always need my mum.
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Ruby Hawk
@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
15 Feb 22
@flapiz I’m glad you’re feeling better and your mothers there for you.
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Juliaacv
@Juliaacv (48422)
• Canada
13 Feb 22
Nobody knows you and what is in your heart like your loving mother. Let her help you thru this difficult time, she wants that for you.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
I know I do feel a little bad burdening her with my problems. But I needed her.
Juliaacv
@Juliaacv (48422)
• Canada
13 Feb 22
@flapiz A child's problems are never a burden to a loving mother, you give it to her, she will help you thru it.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
13 Feb 22
Your mother surely will be of a great support, it was a wise decision to tell her.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
Yeah she told me to not blame myself for anything and to think if I could really in the long run support a man who is quite unstable. She said I deserve someone who is sure of me. She reminded me of my worth.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
13 Feb 22
@flapiz You have a wise and intelligent mother and she is right. You need a strong man who supports you, non one unstable who makes you unhappy.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
@LadyDuck Yeah she said to me she'll support me no matter what Nick and I chose.
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Fleur
@Fleura (29129)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
I hope that talking to her will help you feel better and maybe see the bigger picture.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
It did. She told me that I shouldn't be blaming myself whatever happens and that I deserve someone who is sure of me.
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Fleur
@Fleura (29129)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
@flapiz Quite right
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DianneN
@DianneN (246809)
• United States
13 Feb 22
Sorry about your relationship problems. There is definitely power in a mother’s love.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
My life is governed by love and usually when I'm heartbroken everything else goes wrong like my whole world is falling apart. But my mum pulled me out of my dooms day.
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DianneN
@DianneN (246809)
• United States
13 Feb 22
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Claudia Ramirez
@CaudiaR (27)
• Havana, Cuba
15 Feb 22
Mothers really have something that we commonly call experience and they are always able to realize when we falter at some point, I hope you overcome any obstacle that stands in your way to achieve love, regards and happy day.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 22
Thank you Claudia. Talking with my mum made me more open to what might happen in the future.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 22
@CaudiaR Yeah seeing her sad for me made me less sad as I don't want her to be sad.
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Claudia Ramirez
@CaudiaR (27)
• Havana, Cuba
15 Feb 22
@flapiz A support is always appreciated and even more if it is our own mother who always looks through the same eyes, regards
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snowy
@snowy22315 (169963)
• United States
13 Feb 22
I am glad your mum was supportive, and so sorry about your relationship. That really sucks.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
Thank you Snowy. I'm hoping to fix it but I'm now a little bit mentally ready to let it go.
marguicha
@marguicha (215408)
• Chile
13 Feb 22
That´s what mothers are for.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 22
I'm glad I had an amazing one.
Marlina
@marlina (154166)
• Canada
15 Feb 22
I'm glad your Mom is there for you!
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 22
Me too. Every thing may change but a mother's love remains.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Feb 22
I'm sure your mother is a bit sad for you too. I think it is good that you told her. Mothers prefer to know stuff even if the news isn't always good. They usually have an instinct too when something isn't quite right.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
Yeah her instinct was spot on. I'm sure she is sad for me but she did made me realise my value.
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Reti Boncales
@reti_9 (386)
• Philippines
14 Feb 22
I'm glad to hear it. We just keep moving on in our life even its hard.
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YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
I know. I'm still waiting for his decision but even if it's a bad one I will accept it. I'm giving him space to think.