She is scared

@Sreekala (34312)
India
February 21, 2022 11:04am CST
Hello every one, hope all of you are doing good. This young lady who lives in the same building soon to be a mother. She got admitted in hospital today for the same. Yesterday I had a talk with her on the terrace. She is so scared on thinking about her delivery process. Doctors expected a normal delivery for her, as chances are high but she is already screamed while doing the internal checking. Due to this her Blood Pressure become high, she also developed sugar problem during her pregnancy. I told her there is no need to worry or getting tensed, you have to face it whatever comes in your life. No way you can escape from this pain so gather the courage and face it boldly. As a mother I know motherhood is painful but once you see the baby's face, all the pain will get vanished.... Just praying for her and waiting for a good news. Good night to all those who are going to bed and Very Good morning and have nice day to other people here.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86392)
• United States
21 Feb 22
Aw poor lady..hope she will do just fine.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
She had miscarriages earlier and this time she got complications due to her fear and anxiety.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
@sjvg1976 I tried to convince her. From her words, she also realized these things, still she can't make her mind.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 22
@Sreekala she should not get tensed as that would affect her blood pressure and may cause further complications.
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Feb 22
Hoping it all goes well for her.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
Yes, let us hope the positive side. Will update once the baby born.
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
22 Feb 22
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137173)
• Philippines
22 Feb 22
I think it is best to deliver the baby through CS.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Feb 22
In the long run, normal delivery is best for the mother. I agree if there is complications then can't wait for normal one. C-section has its own complications in the long run.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Feb 22
@Shavkat If there is complications then one must for C section. This lady gave birth to a baby girl through normal delivery.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137173)
• Philippines
23 Feb 22
@Sreekala I guess it is best to have the diagnostic US to see the baby's position. I am sure she can do it normally. It is just an option to undergo CS if there are some complications.
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DE
@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
21 Feb 22
I hope everything turns out well for her and the new baby.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
I too wish the same. She had miscarriage earlier twice and this is the 3rd year after her marriage.
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Raj
@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
23 Feb 22
Yes it's so painful but I hope your word of advice would help her in staying strong and less anxious
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Feb 22
Yes, I too felt the same and she got a baby girl through normal delivery.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Feb 22
@Butterfingers Have a nice day.
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Raj
@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
24 Feb 22
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Faster16
@Faster16 (2930)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 22
I've seen the labor process firsthand, it's quite stressful
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
Yes, it is indeed. Fortunately she gave birth to a baby girl, which was a normal delivery.
Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Feb 22
@Faster16 Of course
Faster16
@Faster16 (2930)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 22
@Sreekala that's good news
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Jenaisle
@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
22 Feb 22
I understand how she must be feeling, when I had my first pregnancy I wish I could die instead of the pain lasting longer. But, indeed, all the pain goes away, as soon as I saw my baby's face. So, my next two pregnancies were more tolerable because I expected the pain and promised to tolerate it.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
That is the right thing we can do with pregnancy. I still remember, in labor room two other ladies were crying profusely and I don't understand why they cried. I never cried as I knew that it won't help in any way, have to bear the pain...
Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 22
I hope things go well for her and she has to bear less labor pain during the delivery.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
@sjvg1976 I understood. But the pain on normal delivery will last for some hours, doing the C-section will create problems in entire life. Doctors agree do C section quickly as they can make more money with C section.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
Pain will be there for sure so there is not need of getting tensed on the same. She must face it boldly and that is the only way left for her. Fingers crossed.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 22
@Sreekala hmm..yes the pain is obvious. I remember my wife when asked by the doctor for the normal delivery she said she dont want to have lots of pain so she want to have surgery. She knew she will have extreme pain because of the twin kids.
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (134195)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 Feb 22
I hope everything will turn out good for her. There is no reason for her to be scared.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Feb 22
Exactly, there is no other way to left but to bear the pain, either in normal delivery or a C-section. Motherhood is not possible without pain.
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