Help please I'm Alone At Home

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@cacay1 (83223)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
February 27, 2022 4:08am CST
My niece and kids were at home since Friday. It was a holiday last Friday so they visited us. We were so excited but this day they left for their home in Echo Verde Subdivision. The bad thing is my sister and grandmom of kids go with them. They left me alone. I can't go with them. I have synchronous classes tomorrow from 7:30 - 12 then 1:30 - 4:30 I feel empty this time, six bedrooms at home, but five no occupants. I am not used to this. I put off all the lights except in my computer area. I can't avoid to cry. They'll be back home on Wednesday. I'm afraid. I'm alone. This is the disadvantage of being single Thanks peps for feeling me love yah all. Image by Pixabay
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@RebeccasFarm (86757)
• United States
27 Feb 22
You live in a mansion no wonder you are scared and lonely..6 bedrooms? This is like Dallas!!
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• United States
27 Feb 22
@cacay1 It must be nice to have so much room Erly..it is so small here.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@RebeccasFarm, police came to our house to interrogate people at home but we denied all their contentions for our ancestral home was under a care taker. The care taker was our distant relatives. Until now he is at large.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@RebeccasFarm, yes the floor area is 350 square meters.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
27 Feb 22
Don't be sad, they'll be back on Wednesday.Think of those persons whose loved ones are never coming back.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@Kandae11, yes thanks that's what I'm doing. We are having our video chat this evening
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
27 Feb 22
Yes, there are people in worst situations right now
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@marlina agree with you. Earth is now in turmoil and disaster. The virus is fading but the war makes instant nd constant fear and mortality rises, so scary. I feel bad for the situation of the people in Ukraine.
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@youless (112112)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Feb 22
Everybody is different. When I was single, I felt free because I could do anything I liked and enjoy my own spare time
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@youless, yes being single makes sense. There is no husband to stop you if you wear sexy or revealing clothes
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 Wow !!!! Hahaha!
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 22
Make the most of your time alone. It is only a few days to Wednesday.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@JudyEv we had our video call awhile ago and I was told they'll be back on Friday evening due to classes of kids but I told them classes are online they can have it at home. I'll know by tomorrow if my advise or recommendation is acceptable.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
28 Feb 22
I like being alone in the house... I had experienced it before.. I didn't feel alone at all...
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@brokenbee, I am not used to it since birth. At least I experience it this time to feel how it feels to be alone.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@sunrisefan Renee @Lucky15 was here last month. She might be very busy. She might be the Governor in their place.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 Miss Arbie is used to flying alone :) Though sometimes she flies with MIss Reine before. I wonder where that girl is now.
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@Adie04 (17360)
27 Feb 22
Wow I smell luxury.... Never mind Anyhow, maybe you could turn on some movies? Late night movies to fill your bore?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@Adie04,thanks we had a video call awhile ago and I feel relieved. I'm now watching a program.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@Adie04 yes, thanks, I felt at ease.
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@Adie04 (17360)
28 Feb 22
@cacay1 that's good to hear that
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
27 Feb 22
only a few days to get to Wednesday. If you feel too lonely, come and see us here at MyLot and we will try to entertain you.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 It won't be long now!
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@marlina yes hehe, long is the waiting for Winter
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@marlina, they will be back by Friday at 4 after the online classes of the kids. In the day, I am holding online classes. This afternoon, I am free for there is meeting of my afternoon class sections hehehe. Feeling free to do Mylotting.
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
27 Feb 22
They have not left for very long time, thy are back on Wednesday, do not feel too bad, enjoy your "ME" time.
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 - I feel safe in our home, I do not like to be alone, but I am not frightened.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@LadyDuck, you're a strong fellah. I'm no longer afraid, I realized it's not good to be scared. I may get sick mentally
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@LadyDuck, sister texted me, they will be back on Friday afternoon after the online classes of the kids to end 4 . I just smile in dismay. I am thankful I survive first night, second and 3rd night this evening. Light is off in my bedroom. I do not like to see anything for fear to see something if light is on.
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• United States
27 Feb 22
You know what I'd do? I would use the time to set up practical jokes on everyone. You could short sheet beds. Saran wrap toilets that you don't use. Put fake creepy crawlers in drawers. Change pictures on walls. Move the socks to the underwater drawers and put the underwater in sock drawers. Replace light bulbs with lower watt bulbs. You know, mess with everybody. If you're giggling over your pranks, you're less likely to feel scared lol.
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• United States
28 Feb 22
@cacay1 I didn't mean to make light of your fears. I was just being silly to distract you
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@Vikingswest1, sorry I'm doing other things. I'm preparing videos for my virtual classes tomorrow. All lights on now, doors locked widows locked, on the ground, we have Led Lights emergency. It captures an individual. It alarms and light itself.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Feb 22
Did you survive the night?
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 how about tonight?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@sol_cee still alone they'll be home on Friday afternoon at 4 after the online class of the kiddos.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@sol_cee, yes , thankfully . I prayed so hard. I put off all the lights in my bedrum. I am afraid to see something if light is on.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
28 Feb 22
You're not alone because ghosts live in each of those 5 vacant rooms hahaha!
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@sunrise, maybe hahahaha, God forbid. I will surely be scared .
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 Just befriend them and ask for a lotto number :)
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• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Feb 22
Don't worry. Wednesday is not too far. At least you will spend time with students in school
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Mar 22
@mildredtabitha, I'm at ease now. We always chat via messenger.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@mildredtabitha, my sister texted me they will be back Friday afternoon after the classes of the kids, We do not hold classes face to face. We're holding classes online.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 I hope you won't feel lonely. But being single is not bad. Do you ever want to get married someday?
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
27 Feb 22
So sorry to hear. Ya it's difficult. Try to stay strong. Occupy your mind here. You aren't alone dear. Take care
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@Rashnag, I can't stay here for so long, I'm preparing for my lessons tomorrow.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@Rashnag, thanks so much for your very good wishes for me.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
27 Feb 22
@cacay1 ok dear. All the best. Take care
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Feb 22
I enjoy time alone.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@CarolDM, this is the first time to be alone since birth. Life is indeed mysterious. But I am glad to experience this way to prove my bravery
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Mar 22
@CarolDM, yes you used to it, ours here there's extended family that makes home happy.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 We are all different. I am sure you will be fine.
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@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
27 Feb 22
I think they will be back soon. That is something you should look forward to. Maybe time to be on your own in the meantime that you are alone at home. Think of something that will not make you sad.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Feb 22
@rsa101, we're having our video call awhile ago for 45 minutes. I feel relieved. I'm also preparing videos for my virtual classes tomorrow. Thanks so much.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
1 Mar 22
You're posting that you're all alone and you just know that criminals in your area might be Mylotters too and they would say you'd be an easy prey for robbery hehehe!
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@sunnrisefan, our fence is so high and we have burglar alarm ( 3 installed in the gate and in our front door and side door. There is no robbery so far here for many years during the Duterte Administration . Criminals are afraid of the police now for if there are crimes, the police will be sanctioned , so they better shot the criminals. But if the Pink wins, God forbid, crimes will soar back like the " Laglag Bala " in the NAIA, " Akyat Bahay gang", " Martilyo gang" , and more that fears us to the bones. You can compare now the improvements in NAIA before and now. People there are disciplined and doing their job well, don't know what will happen to our country if Pink wins she is a nig sh---t--i-t.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@sunrisefan just a house.
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
1 Mar 22
@cacay1 So your house is like Fort Knox :)
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
28 Feb 22
Wow! 6 bedrooms! Too much to clean You are certainly not used to being alone. I am and I love it. Just make it a peaceful vacation for you at home.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Mar 22
@thelme55, , we help each other in cleaning every morning, but since my niece and kids moved to their own home, there's less mess at home. My niece and her hubby and two kids and their helper will have their 3 weeks vacation at home , so these rooms will be occupied. Our home will be alive again with the little kiddos all girls ages 5 and 3.
@Kouponkaren (5487)
• United States
2 Mar 22
AW, sorry you are home alone, but tomorrow is Wednesday and they will be back. Sorry I am seeing this too late to keep you company but thought I would add my 2 cents (comment) anyway!
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Mar 22
@Kouponkaren, sister texted me, they'll be home tomorrow after the online classes of the kiddos. Thanks Karen.
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