Are you being judged on how you look like by the people’s eyes?

@ZedSmart (19839)
Philippines
March 5, 2022 5:49am CST
The most misconception by people about me is I am not an approachable person. I may not that sociable but once you get to know me, you will know the real me. A classmate in high school once told me during the reunion that she saw me somewhere in the city but missed the time to approach because she don’t know how to begin the conversation with. She wants to ask how life is after high school but did not bother to call me anymore. I am not a conversation starter and I think that sent a wrong impression to most people that I met.
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@LadyDuck (502972)
• Italy
5 Mar 22
I am shy, but very friendly. People like to talk with me, often when I sit somewhere waiting for my husband, people start a conversation with me.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
5 Mar 22
I have a Finnish girlfriend who attracts people all the time.
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@LadyDuck (502972)
• Italy
5 Mar 22
@ZedSmart My husband rolls his eyes, every time he left me alone, he comes back and I am chatting with someone.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
5 Mar 22
They see as friendly person Ms. Anna and I think that shine from within.
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@DaddyEvil (174829)
• United States
5 Mar 22
I was shy in high school but chose to go into retail sales, so forced myself to talk to people. Now, I talk with complete strangers on the street. I pretend like they're my best friend and people respond well to that. I LIKE talking with people now.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
5 Mar 22
Good to know that you overcome your being shy and developed to a more communicative and friendly person.
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@DaddyEvil (174829)
• United States
5 Mar 22
@ZedSmart It was really difficult at first. Once I figured out what people would respond to, it got a lot easier.
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@sulynsi (2669)
• Canada
5 Mar 22
I think a lot of us are apprehensive about meeting new people and making friends - you might really enjoy this little animated video about making friends and dealing with those anxieties - I found it really helpful and fun.
https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/teenagers/whiteboard-animations/whats-a-real-friend/
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
6 Mar 22
I would take time to see that later. Thank you.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Mar 22
Perhaps some people do, but I do not mind as long as they are not attacking me upfront.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
5 Mar 22
That's true.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
5 Mar 22
I tend to be a little shy, but when I did product demos for a couple of years, I learned to be more outgoing.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
6 Mar 22
That's great you're able to overcome your shyness. That's why I chose accounting course over marketing because I think I do not have skills to attract customers.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
5 Mar 22
Oh ok dear. It happens. Everyone is different. I am judged sometimes not always. I give out friendly and positive wibes mostly. Enjoy your weekend. Take care
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
5 Mar 22
For me, it's most of the time but I would say I'm not a bad person . Perhaps, I have a strong personality.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
5 Mar 22
@ZedSmart ok dear. It happens. Take care
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@jstory07 (148807)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Mar 22
I am shy around people I do not know and have to know them before I talk a lot to know them.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
6 Mar 22
I'm always not an ice breaker. But if I know the person, I would greet or give a nod to a person.
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