Helping A Friend

Photo is mine. Some of the thrifted items I will be selling to help a friend.
@allen0187 (58444)
Philippines
March 9, 2022 9:53am CST
Hi myLotters. How is everyone? Been awhile since I last posted. Really trying to get into a regular writing schedule here but life has other plans for me. On the tail end of my two day rest days. Spent most of the past two days doing errands. Managed to get my debit card from my bank which is good. That has been pending for more than a week now. Also, spent much of these past two days setting up a thrifted clothes business from a college buddy of mine. He fell through hard times during this pandemic. It doesn't help that he is recovering from stroke so his work options are limited at this time until he fully recovers. Our group of friends have been helping out financially but let's face it, we cannot always extend financial assistance. I had thought of helping him get work but that is taking time as well. He has no family to turn to. His ex-wives have left him. He gets support from his children - both biological ones and adopted ones but each adult child have their own lives and families to look after as well. Finally, thought of setting up a thrift store in his home. Locally, we call it 'ukay'. He has a nephew who can help him out. Our group of friends were able to get a supplier and manage to get some funds to help him start. we got him two bales which is around 100 to 150 pieces of assorted clothes from jackets, hoodies, wind breakers, to shirts and dresses. The left over cash, we gave it to him as well to help him tide over until his business gets going and starts showing profit. We are looking at providing him additional bales for him to sell. We are also doing an online selling event for him. It will feature items from my personal online store and two other online stores that I'm part of with different sets of business partners. Half of the sales will go to this friend of ours. Glad to be able to help in this small way.
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Mar 22
He is very fortunate to have good friends like you to help him out this way. He needs that support, and it can't be easy too if he has health issues. Hope it all works out and that he will be able to continue sustaining himself.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
Yeah, we already sent him two bales - that's around 100 to 150 assorted pieces of clothing. We will be talking with him later via video chat to discuss how to further help him. We are planning to have an online selling event for him, all proceeds will go to him.
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@Janet357 (75656)
9 Mar 22
Wow, you are such a nice guy! That's why, we are always advised to save for the rainy day. Hope he recovers soon.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
Not sure how it went with his savings but he did say that he spent most of it for his treatment, therapy, and medication.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
9 Mar 22
I wondered if you were okay. I'm glad to know you've got an excellent reason to have been missing. It's very nice of you to help your friend. I hope everything works out for him.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
Just been busy offline. Really miss it here.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
11 Mar 22
@DaddyEvil yeah, I see what you mean. I guess people have been busy somewhere else. I do miss the activity here.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
10 Mar 22
@allen0187 Uh huh... I've heard that before... A lot of the "regulars" have been missing lately. I'm not talking about the people on Noise. Others have been missing. I'm hoping everyone is okay and just busy like you.
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
9 Mar 22
It’s good that you and other friends can help this guy out. Sounds like he really needs the help.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
He definitely needs all the help he can get.
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 Mar 22
@allen0187 I would say so.
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9 Mar 22
That is so nice of you to do this for a friend. Hope the business will be a success.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
Yup, we are doing what we can to support his business.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Mar 22
You are a great friend to help him. A nice thing to do. Take care and good luck to him.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
Thanks for your support Carol.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
@CarolDM glad to be back here.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Mar 22
@allen0187 You are very welcome. Good to see you.
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@RebeccasFarm (86833)
• United States
9 Mar 22
This is very good to help him Allen bless you. I hope it will help him..does he have a place to live?
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
Yes, he has a place to live. His children are paying for the rent and the utilities. However, no one is there to take care of his daily living expenses. Hopefully, the business takes care of that.
@GreatMartin (23675)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
13 Mar 22
Just asking---I know it takes a lot of 'permits' here---is it legal to open a business in the home without government 'papers'??
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
15 Mar 22
Our friend is planning to open a thrift shop. I think he can do without getting any papers or permits.
@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
9 Mar 22
Can you be my friend too?
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
Sure.
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@JudyEv (326094)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 22
Those are very innovative ideas and I'm sure he is really grateful for your help and that of his other friends and colleagues. Once he gets started, hopefully he'll need less help.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
That is the long term plan, help him so he becomes self-supporting.
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• Philippines
24 Apr 22
That is really thoughtful of you. I wish him well with his business.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
25 Apr 22
Thanks for your kind words.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
10 Mar 22
You're one true friend.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
11 Mar 22
Thanks. I'd like to think so as well.
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