Swallowtail Butterflies Make Great Therapy

@CarolDM (203452)
Nashville, Tennessee
August 4, 2022 11:04am CST
Walked out to Dustin's garden again yesterday. And got this yellow Swallowtail butterfly photo. Made my day to see this beautiful butterfly. They are bigger than my hand. I also see black ones flying around. They really enjoy both butterfly bushes. And the hummingbirds have arrived. Have not gotten quick enough to get photos of those yet. But soon I will. My neck seems to be the worst pain for now. Maybe it is because he cut through all the muscles, tendons and nerves in my neck to get to my brain. Any movement hurts. Bending is a no-no. And you know most of what you have to do requires bending. Making a lot of adjustments. Oh well, this too shall pass. Not sure what crazy Pelosi is trying to prove by going to Taiwan. I guess we need a war with China. Why not. And if Biden doesn't go home soon, not sure what the state of our country will be. Oh well. I will continue watching the butterflies and let the cards fall where they fall. Just for those who think I voted for Trump (and there are many of you that do, maybe I didn't vote at all), it is really none of your business. Thought I would throw that in. Seems if you diss Biden or any of the White House yahoos, that makes you a Trumper. Not true. It makes you have common sense. Photo is mine. Yellow Swallowtail from Dustin's garden. Now I will go back to enjoying Dustin's garden. There are also lots of blooms in the front garden to enjoy as well. The best kind of therapy in my opinion. Good day to you all. I will catch up when I can.
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@RebeccasFarm (86764)
• United States
4 Aug 22
I saw one here yesterday Carol and thought of you.
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• United States
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM Doing okay just counting down the days Carol. I am sorry you are still in some limitations and pain and hope you heal sooner than later. Please also say hello to Dustin for me RIP
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
That is very sweet of you. Hope you are doing well.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
@RebeccasFarm He said about three month total recovery. Thank you so much.
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@luisga814 (6913)
• Quezon City, Philippines
4 Aug 22
I agree with this. Nice color of this butterfly. My stress reliever.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thanks, I look forward all year for these to arrive.
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@luisga814 (6913)
• Quezon City, Philippines
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM Is that butterfly seasonal? Honestly, I didn't see that in real life yet.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
@luisga814 Yes they only show up in July August and September, then they migrate.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
4 Aug 22
Thanks for the beautiful photo. I'm glad that you were strong enough to write today.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thanks to you Marlina.
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@1creekgirl (40529)
• United States
4 Aug 22
So happy to hear from you. Take care.
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@1creekgirl (40529)
• United States
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM The butterfly is just beautiful. I know Dustin's garden brings you such peace.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
@1creekgirl Thanks so much. It is so hard to come back inside.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thank you my sweet friend.
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• United States
4 Aug 22
Dustins garden is the perfect escape with the beautiful butterflies and the hummingbirds. Sorry that you're still in pain and that your recovery is slower than you were probably hoping for.
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• United States
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM I almost feel as if I knew Dustin
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
@Marilynda1225 That makes my day to read your words. You have no idea.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thank you Marilyn. You are one of the only ones who ever says Dustin's name any more. This too shall pass.
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@kobesbuddy (74594)
• East Tawas, Michigan
4 Aug 22
Your Yellow Swallowtail Butterfly photo is beautiful, Dustin loves it, too! Your neck will heal up, it could take quite a while before the pain goes away. Ibuprofen works wonders, for Jay. I don't discuss politics with other online, we all have separate views and perception.
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@kobesbuddy (74594)
• East Tawas, Michigan
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM And venting is what we do online, to let off steam! I do this often:)
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@kobesbuddy (74594)
• East Tawas, Michigan
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM Dustin watches over you, Carol 24/7!
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thanks Kharla for saying Dustin's name. He said a three month recovery time. I was only venting. I usually avoid politics too.
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@ptrikha_2 (45501)
• India
11 Aug 22
You definitely need to be very careful when doing house routines. Is there any scope for some temporary outside help? The butterfly looks gorgeous. With all the noise and din, war is not going to happen soon (over Taiwan) but future is unpredictable. From the reports, it seems that Biden administration has a lot of challenges. But well, there are a lot of adverse global factors especially Russia-Ukraine war. Have a nice Thursday!
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@ptrikha_2 (45501)
• India
12 Aug 22
@CarolDM Good to know! A pleasant morning here and I am having my cup of tea.
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@ptrikha_2 (45501)
• India
13 Aug 22
@CarolDM Well I caught flu and not feeling well. I might share about in some future posts.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 22
Thanks I do have lots of help. Much appreciated.
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@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Aug 22
I'm glad you are able to greet the beautiful visitors that come to Dustin's garden! How amazing this one is bigger than your hand (our butterflies, if any, are way smaller). Being around nature is so soothing . . . I hope it all helps to get you better faster. All the world seems worrisome these days.
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@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM You are fortunate to have all that right in your yard - simply amazing!!
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thanks so much. It sure made my day. I was so close to him. What a beauty. Nature has so much to offer.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
4 Aug 22
A butterfly larger than the size of your palm must be a beautiful thing to see. What does the doctor say about you being able to bend your neck?
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
5 Aug 22
@CarolDM I had an accident years ago that affected two of my vertebrae. I cannot do bending although there is no pain.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
5 Aug 22
The neurosurgeon is totally aware of the bending issue. It is a normal part of recovery. When they cut into your neck muscles, tendons and nerves it takes awhile to heal.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Aug 22
@allknowing Totally different surgery. Glad you are ok now.
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@kaylachan (57716)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Aug 22
I am sure you will get better soon. Just give yourself time. That being said, those sound amazing, enjoy.
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@kaylachan (57716)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM You're welcome. I know. Been there with other things.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thanks Kayla. Baby steps. Thanks.
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@FourWalls (62172)
• United States
4 Aug 22
I’m glad you’re feeling better to come online for a few minutes, and to walk around outside for exercise (physically and, more importantly, emotionally). I saw on the AP website that China fired some precision missiles to protest Pelosi’s visit. You’re right, who you vote for is between you and that piece of paper in the ballot box. Nobody else. And, so everyone knows, there are more than two political parties in this country.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
I am really trying every day. A long recovery. He told me it would be but I thought, I got this. Thanks for agreeing, had to vent. One of the days.
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@moffittjc (118459)
• Gainesville, Florida
4 Aug 22
You are so blessed to see such beautiful butterflies in Dustin’s garden! I’m so glad they bring you peace, serenity and happiness. We need more of that in our world. I’m not a fan of Biden, but I’m also not a Trumper either.
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@moffittjc (118459)
• Gainesville, Florida
5 Aug 22
@CarolDM I had a feeling you were probably venting from some type of comments or discussions on this site!
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
When I planted these butterfly bushes I hoped they would visit and they do every year. Had to vent after a few comments earlier.
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@Ronrybs (17844)
• London, England
4 Aug 22
What a attractive flutterby! Hope you recover full mobility soon, it sounds like a rough time for the present
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@Ronrybs (17844)
• London, England
5 Aug 22
@CarolDM Not too shabby here. Bit too hot for me, still, so I am hiding indoors today and waiting for the tech to sort out my landline phone
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thanks, the doctor told me it would be tough. How can it not be when they cut through your neck muscles. But it will all just takes time. Good to see you. Hope things are well with you.
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@nela13 (55700)
• Portugal
13 Aug 22
You had a serious surgery, it will take time to recover, I am glad to hear that you are doing well.
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@nela13 (55700)
• Portugal
14 Aug 22
@CarolDM as long as you are recovering that is what matters.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 Aug 22
@nela13 I overdid it but I am taking it easy today. Thanks.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Aug 22
Thanks I have good days then two and three steps backwards but he said this is normal. He did a lot of surgery for five hours in my brain.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
4 Aug 22
Oh, how beautiful! I love the photo! I really hope you feel better very soon.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
4 Aug 22
@CarolDM You're very welcome.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Aug 22
Thanks I got lucky with this one. I am so happy about it. Much appreciate your kind words.
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@RasmaSandra (73473)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Aug 22
The butterflies are so beautiful, and I am glad you are finding the garden as a form of therapy,I sure hope that the butterflies continue to bring you peace and calm and I hope your neck stops hurting soon, Many blessings to you,
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Aug 22
Thanks, I love this species. They are so big and so cool to watch. I have many videos and photos. I have always had the garden as therapy, just in a different way this year. It is healing now. Thanks to you so much. Thoughts are with you as well.
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• Midland, Michigan
11 Aug 22
So you know how long bending will be a no-no or is it a wait and see decision? Pretty butterfly and blooms.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 22
Wait and see. I can slowly bend but have to hold onto something. Thank you Marsha.
@TheHorse (205815)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Aug 22
We have swallowtails in CA as well.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 22
That is good to know.
11 Aug 22
I can imagine your awesome experience with nature. That Swallow butterfly looks like a bright message of hope and grace have been with you and still coming your way. :-) Good on yah, Carol! I mean, politics or no-politics-- I will still visit with you on myLot. You are right, those current leaders in your country are destroying all the good and happiness your country once enjoyed 2 years ago. But I see that common sense is in dire need of seeing the light happening in the next 2 years and ahead. :-)
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 22
Dustin's garden has literally saved me many times. I can just stand there or sit on the bench and the butterflies and hummingbird show up. I know he is helping me. I believe that with all my heart. As for the political comment I made, I had just had it that day. Sometimes I have to say something.
• United States
7 Aug 22
So much better to watch butterflies in your garden than to worry about the crazies in Washington. I've never seen a butterfly so large and beautiful before. It's amazing.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Aug 22
You got that right and that is exactly what I do. I also avoid many posts on here.