Our good deed for the day

@Fleura (29131)
United Kingdom
August 14, 2022 8:27pm CST
This week we are away from home for a little break, and the girls were keen to go to the seaside. To be honest, none of us are massive beach fans – lying about on hot sand all day just doesn’t excite any of us, and we’d really prefer a cliff walk or an hour or two spent rock-pooling – but we do like to be beside the sea now and then, maybe have a little paddle, wander up and down the beach looking for pretty shells, interesting pebbles and the like, and just have a bit of a change. And all the beaches within a reasonable distance of here are sandy. The nearest beach to where we are is not a big resort but it does have quite a lot of visitors in summer. At low tide it is an extensive sandy beach, backed by miles of sand dunes with extensive salt flats behind. The last shop on the road to the beach sells the best ice-cream. The only real down-side is that there is only a small block of rather horrible public toilets quite a long way back up the road. So we headed to the beach for a couple of hours, equipped with blanket, swimsuits, towels, suncream and books to read. When we arrived the tide was in and just turning, although the water was only just above knee deep. Having made up my mind to swim I was determined to do it, so spent a little while floating about as the water was surprisingly warm. The first time I have swum in the British sea without a wetsuit in several years! The girls mostly just paddled about as Little One was afraid of bumping into any jellyfish. Then we sat on the beach for a little bit, dried off and read our books and tried to avoid getting sunburnt. But before long we had had enough and decided it was time to do something else. Along with us to the beach I had taken a couple of disposable rubber gloves and a carrier bag so as to collect up any litter we came across (I opted for the gloves because with the toilet situation, you are always a bit dubious of what you might find!). I hate to see litter on the beach (or anywhere) and it’s frustrating when I can’t do anything about it. In spite of the number of visitors on this hot day, there wasn’t a huge amount of litter but I did collect up a couple of mesh bags, some plastic and a couple of drinks bottles and ice-cream tubs from ‘our’ patch before we set out our blanket. Then as we were leaving I put a glove on again and gathered up a few more bits and pieces, mainly baby wipes but also food containers and a pair of socks. Then I found a nice pair of sunglasses. I asked the two older ladies who were sitting on deckchairs nearby if they were theirs, or if anyone else had been sitting there, but they said no, so I kept those. But then as we walked through the dunes I saw a purse. I picked it up – it was heavy, and inside was a quantity of cash along with bank cards etc. Of course I got a name from that, so back I went to the beach and asked the same older ladies if either of their names was Pilkington, but they said no. So I looked around and approached the next nearest person (although the beach was quite busy, it’s so big that they were all quite spread out) and asked her name. Thankfully she immediately replied that she was Kirsty Pilkington (the name on the card, and no I hadn’t told her that) so I was able to hand the purse over. She was very happy to have it back (she was trying to convince herself that she must have left it in the car) and I was happy not to have to try to figure out what to do with it. The days when one took any ‘lost property’ to the local police station are long gone (along with the local police stations). So I feel like I accomplished two good deeds in one day! All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2022.
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@LadyDuck (458491)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 22
My comment is gone due to the site glitch. You need a police station near the beach, as those accidents may happen.
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@LadyDuck (458491)
• Switzerland
16 Aug 22
@Fleura It is a shame, you were really nice to ask to people their name to give back that purse.
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@Fleura (29131)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 22
Most of our local police stations have been closed years ago.
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@rebelann (111204)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Aug 22
Wow, you're a wonderful person to go to so much trouble to find the owner of that purse when a lot of people would simply have kept the money. I haven't been to a beach in decades ..... wait, I live on a beach but sadly there isn't any water ..... I would probably be bored within minutes especially if I couldn't drag my dog with me.
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@Fleura (29131)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 22
I'm not a big fan of sitting on the beach either, 15 minutes is about enough for me!
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• China
16 Aug 22
I have to respond this post once again.Yesterday's disappeared somehow. Glad that you had a happy family outing ! I admire you for never pocketing the money picked up and having strong awareness of environmental protection no matter where you go!
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• China
17 Aug 22
@Fleura Here we often use the contactless payment to settle our account.How you deal with the wallet sowed the seeds of virtue in your kids.
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@Fleura (29131)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 22
Yesterday there were some issues and many posts disappeared Thank you for your comment! It would have been easy for someone to pick up the wallet and pocket the cash, and maybe even use the cards (because nowadays you can use a card for contactless payments up to £100 at a time! so someone could get through quite a lot of your money before it was stopped) so I guess she was lucky it was us that found it. I didn't even look closely at how much cash was in there in case I was tempted! And of course the girls were also watching to see what I did with it!
I just received this email from myLotBugs referencing disappearing discussions/earnings today: 'Today is gonna be weird for a bit. The database has to...
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@Fleura (29131)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 22
As for the litter, for years I would walk past thinking how horrible it was that people would go to a lovely place and then leave their disgusting waste there to spoil it. But finally I thought 'You know what, instead of just tutting to myself I will actually do something about it!' So now I try to go prepared with some sort of bag and maybe gloves or a litter picker. I'm no longer embarrassed to be seen clearing it up, and who knows maybe I will inspire someone else to do the same - or at least make them think twice before throwing their own litter there!
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@wolfgirl569 (95321)
• Marion, Ohio
16 Aug 22
Glad you found the purse owner quickly. I remember telling you that last night
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@Fleura (29131)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 22
Thanks - yes I thought I saw that message, briefly
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
15 Aug 22
You were lucky to find the right person with so many people on the beach
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@Fleura (29131)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 22
I was lucky to find her so easily. It would have been much more of a problem otherwise as the days of taking lost property to the local police station are long gone, along with the local police stations!
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Aug 22
@Fleura You certainly did a-good deed, not many people would have taken the trouble.
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@cabuyogty (2317)
18 Aug 22
Wow. Im glad that you have done your good deeds
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