How do you ease your tempers
By Trebor Ika
@Treborika (17895)
Mombasa, Kenya
January 24, 2023 12:48am CST
It's my hope that you are doing well wherever you are.
This morning I am okay too.
I think everyone has tempers. However there are short tempered persons and others are not.
I am personally not a short tempered type.
However it feels so bad when someone hurts you in whichever way; emotionally, physically and what have you.
When I get angry for instance, I would like to settle alone somewhere and think about it for some time.
I therefore not quick to express my tempers and after sometime the tempers would have been easen and that would be the end of the story.
How about you?
How do you express your tempers, do you revenge or you just let it go after some time?
I wish you a good luck while milking here.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60825)
• Perth, Australia
13 Mar 23
@Treborika It happens. As you said, we all handle it in different ways. My ways vary. Sometimes it's a quick anger that doesn't take long for me to forget about and other times I get extremely angry and want to throw something hard and scream loud! I don't like being that way at all but when you get treated badly over and over and try it bottle it up, it doesn't end well.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60825)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 23
@Treborika Yes but only sometimes. I never used to be like this. I have just dealt with a lot in my life and getting very tired of certain things so sometimes whenever someone hurts me, I tend to be more short tempered as you say.
Do you ever feel like you just have had enough? Or like, you are dealing with too much and feeling frustrated? It's like that.
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@Treborika (17895)
• Mombasa, Kenya
20 Mar 23
@VivaLaDani13 Yes of course. I sometimes experience that
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@Treborika (17895)
• Mombasa, Kenya
13 Mar 23
Yes of course my friend. Sometimes you are very short tempered.
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@LadyDuck (473990)
• Italy
24 Jan 23
@Treborika - When we are angry, we could say things that we regret for the rest of our life.
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@Treborika (17895)
• Mombasa, Kenya
24 Jan 23
@LadyDuck I agree with you in that
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@Treborika (17895)
• Mombasa, Kenya
24 Jan 23
You even seems to be so actually. Otherwise I am very glad for your response
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@dgobucks226 (36490)
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25 Jan 23
Sometimes temper does get the best of me speaking out without thinking. Usually, I will just go off and do something to calm down like exercise or listen to music. Humor can be helpful in stressful situation. Sometimes when things are not going your way you just have to laugh.
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@Xynehappy (154)
• Kenya
25 Jan 23
I would sit down alone quietly and think about it just like what you have said
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@cherigucchi (14974)
• Philippines
24 Jan 23
I usually stay away from the thing or person that causes it. Give myself a space.
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@jstory07 (143901)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Jan 23
I am an easy going person it is rare for me to get mad at anything if I do I leave the situation.
@YrNemo (20254)
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24 Jan 23
I am very good in cursing people (lucky that I am not good in witchcrafts 
). I am short tempered, so I learn to just keep my silence first (or the world would have ended and exploded many times over by now).
). I am short tempered, so I learn to just keep my silence first (or the world would have ended and exploded many times over by now).
@sharonelton (30458)
• Lichfield, England
24 Jan 23
Sometimes I can lose my temper when someone irritates me or puts something in the wrong place or does something that I don't like. Sometimes I take it out on the pots and pans but usually I go in my bedroom to calm down.
