Does money help us to overcome depression?

@dya80dya (33510)
January 27, 2023 3:42am CST
My mom said that money can help me overcome depression. She wants me to do therapy with other people. But how can I help others if I can't help myself? Now I have a part time job, I earned money and I bought everything I needed. Those things didn't make me happy. I bought a new phone, a computer and a monitor. I didn't feel joy even if I needed all those things. I wonder why I can't be happy even if I could buy so many things. So in my case money doesn't help so much.
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@rsa101 (37948)
• Philippines
27 Jan 23
Well if that money could buy the medicines to control or stop your depression it might help. But most probably it might not be able to help you completely since depression is not only about money but many factors and is unique from person to person.
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@dya80dya (33510)
27 Jan 23
I tried almost all medicines for depression. All of them make me extremely anxious. It would be so easy if medication would heal depression.
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@rsa101 (37948)
• Philippines
27 Jan 23
@dya80dya I am aware that depression is a serious condition, and various people will approach coping mechanisms in different ways. One solution is medical intervention, but as in your case, it is ineffective. It would be wise to seek the advice of a competent psychologist who can show you how to handle the situation.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
@rsa101 Yes, I am talking to a therapist.
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@arunima25 (85269)
• Bangalore, India
27 Jan 23
It's a very old saying that Money can not buy happiness. And it's very deep. I am very sorry that you are feeling depressed. Is there anything that makes you happy? Music? Walk? Nature? Art? Specialisation? Games? Happiness is in the little joys around us. Many a times you don't need money to enjoy them. Take care.
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@dya80dya (33510)
27 Jan 23
Games made me happy. I lost interest in everything. I loved learning new languages.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
27 Jan 23
@dya80dya Why did you lost interest?
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@dya80dya (33510)
27 Jan 23
@mrki444 Depression made me lose interest.
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
1 Feb 23
For me money is effective to cure my depression. I feel a lot better if I have money. I feel more energetic and positive when I have money. So when I have little money depression sets in
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Feb 23
@averygirl72, me too. I'm inspired when I have money.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Feb 23
@dya80dya always eat parsley and celery avoid oily foods and always think of funny jokes.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Do you buy something that helps your depression?
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@innertalks (21021)
• Australia
27 Jan 23
Some people, myself included, can live life without being overly happy. Life just goes on, and we live it in one way, or another. I think it is more important to try to be a kind, honest, loving, compassionate, and understanding person, than a happy one.
@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
I would like to feel some joy at least. I am trying to be a kind person.
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@lazydaizee (6736)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 23
I do not think money will help anyone with a very bad case of depression. Depression is an illness that has many causes, perhaps you should find out what is making you feel so depressed. Maybe your mother meant that poor people suffer more with depression because they are always worried about paying for the things they need. Poorer people often miss out on the things they want because they cannot afford to treat themselves to luxuries. This can make them miserable especially if it seems like everybody else is able to buy what ever they want.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Anxiety made me very depressed.
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@eLdav1s (67)
• Nigeria
28 Jan 23
From what i understand, i believe money simply gives a false sense of happiness. When you bought the new phones and all that, i am pretty sure you where excited about it. But that's just it. Many tend to take that short period of happiness as a cure for depression. The worst thing you would ever do is place your happiness on material things. Rather take some time to find out what's missing. Make yourself happy cause no one else would do it better.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
27 Jan 23
I know that feelings. Then I realize, having a true friends can make me happy and overcome my depression
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
This is true. Friends would make me more happy than money.
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@RebeccasFarm (86759)
• United States
27 Jan 23
Oh yes, it would help me immensely
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• United States
30 Jan 23
@cacay1 Yes it should Erly. There is nothing wrong with it..we need it.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jan 23
@RebeccasFarm money makes me happy.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
@cacay1 What do you buy to make you happy? I bought everything I needed and I can't feel joy when I am using those things.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jan 23
Ask yourself what makes you happy?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Feb 23
@dya80dya join in a dating site to find a soul mate.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
@cacay1 Yes, I did this.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Having friends, laughing with them, this would make me happy. And having a stable job. But anxiety took all these from me.
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28 Jan 23
money cannot buy happiness
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Yes. I noticed that.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Jan 23
Try to do the things that you like most and try thinking about your past success that make you happy and feel good about yourself . Always keep yourself busy with activities that you enjoy. You will overcome depression soon .Keep trying it friend.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Thank you for your kind words.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
27 Jan 23
It depends what cause your depression. You must find source and solve it .
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Anxiety caused my depression, but I can't get rid of my anxiety.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Jan 23
All I can say is what works for me. And it has nothing to do with money or any material things. I became happy inside when I said to heck with what others think, I forgave others for things they had done or said, even if I never forget, and I started on my journey. You have to find your own happiness from inside you. And you are the only one that can do that. I wish you luck in doing just that. We all deserve happiness.
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Thank you. I will try to forgive more.
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@cabuyogty (2311)
27 Jan 23
I think it was a no because i dont know why my neighbors they seem to be have enough of money or have a lot of money but they always use to nag someone like me and other people in the neighborhood . It's true , guys
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@dya80dya (33510)
1 Feb 23
Why do they nag you or other people?
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