Found What You Were Looking For?

There was that U2 song, “I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For.” I have. Peace, contentment, knowing God and knowing He loves me…better than any amount of money on earth.

Like FourWalls, I too thought of the U2 song with your title. I think I have found what I was looking for, pretty much. Wish things could be different but they are not. So I try to be happy with how things are.

Very early in my life I decided what I wanted and found him. I got married a couple of months after turning 18. I never regreted it.

I survive on the thought - It is not how much you have but what you make of what you have leads to happiness.

All I know is, I wish you and I had met good men instead of the ones we got Kandase. I am fine on my own now.

Yes, my husband was the one I was looking for. We have been married 35 years.

I would never ever settle, that is what our dating years are for. After quite a few decades I am still so happy, and he still turns my heard.

I knew what I wanted and I found the full ten I wanted. I would have preferred to live alone than to accept someone I did not fully like.

My husband found me while I had someone who I thought was perfect for me. I never settle for anything, and at the time, my husband was just starting his career. Didn't imagine he would be so successful. I wouldn't choose to live without him.

If I had gotten half a loaf, that would have been something. I should have kept looking. Oh well. Live and learn. I'm living alone now.

While no-one is perfect, I don't think it's a good idea to settle for half a loaf. And money shouldn't be a factor but, having said that, it's hard on relationships if money is really tight.

I got married over forty years ago. The approach to looking for a spouse was different in a conservative society. The man was supposed to be the main breadwinner and I took that role seriously! Give and take was our policy though some may think one giving and the other taking! That approach has served us well.

Either you can keep looking or go with what's there. The person may not be your perfect cup of tea, but they're nice people and hard-working with good traits like willing to help you out. I'd say give those a try.

My life partner was selected by my parents. However in my next birth I would like to be financially stable and then choose a life partner. I would rather lead a life alone then have a pestering, selfish life partner or in-laws.

It all depends on the circumstances, and whether or not you could be happy without the full loaf. Some people are just incompatible and shouldn't be together...even though they are fond of or even love each other.

Dale and I married far too young (18 and 20) and had many ups and downs. But we were blessed when God saved us and put our marriage back together after being separated a year. We still had our share of trials, but even as different as we are, I don't think any couple could love each other more than we do.

I had certain ideas about the man I'd marry one day. Yet, the man I did marry, was completely different. It turned out, however, that he was just right.

Mine was a sweet mess.

Money is not an important factor for me it may be for a lot of others but I choose to look at the soul of a person the total person I choose to look past the outside of a person because the real to get to know a person is to go beyond the surface outside stuff and get to know that I'm from there so hard mine and the inner workings of who they are to answer your question I have found my person we match purse perfectly and I thank God that I have bad relationships in life so that I was able to find the good one the diamond and the rough as they say I love him to life and he loves me to life too we joke perfectly together because we have been three the same sort of things in life thanks for this question hope to read more from you soon.