Allow me to introduce to you our culture

@Jenaisle (16568)
Philippines
April 20, 2023 5:27am CST
There are certain things that identify us from other cultures, and I want to introduce some of our practices to you. I'm assuming that many of you may want to learn about other cultures like the Filipino culture. So, here are some practices showing respect for older people. 1. Whenever we meet someone we know who is older than us, we do the "mano po" We take the person's hands and touch our foreheads to the back of his/her hand as a sign of respect. 2. We say "opo' and "po" to show respect when we talk to people, especially elders. So, if you want to be respectful when you visit the country, say "opo" or "po" at the end of your statements. What about you? What are your cultural practices for respecting older people? You may want to share them with us, so we can all learn. Thank you. Image credit: wacom-asia.com
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
20 Apr 23
Those are very interesting customs. Here in the southern part of the US, we're taught to say yes mam and no mam and yes sir and no sir as a sign of respect.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
You use sir and mam. That's good enough. By the way, I couldn't reply to your DM. The button was missing. Anyhow, It's okay. No worries.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
@1creekgirl I have forgotten it already. Take care.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
20 Apr 23
@Jenaisle Thank you so much. I really felt bad about it.
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@Sojourn (13833)
• India
20 Apr 23
We touch the feet of our elderly when we meet them after a long time.
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• Kenya
20 Apr 23
I have seen it in Indian movies
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
@Sojourn Oh, really? That also show reverence!
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
21 Apr 23
Respecting elders is a good thing I have not observed anything special here.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
21 Apr 23
Yes, it is, because the way you treat your elders will be the way the younger ones will treat you too when you grow older.
@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
21 Apr 23
@allknowing Right, i learned that here. Thank you for the info.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
21 Apr 23
@Jenaisle Among Hinus they touch the feet of elders.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
20 Apr 23
Such a great culture.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
Thank you. I plan to teach all my grandkids this show of respect.
@rakski (156651)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
Not all kids do that anymore. Good thing my daughter's school still practices that
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
I presume so, kids nowadays have different ways of expressing their respect.
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@rakski (156651)
• Philippines
21 Apr 23
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
20 Apr 23
We bow down and touch their feet if they are closed family or someone respectable like our teachers to seek their blessings. For other elderly, we bow down while folding our hands and saying Namaskar/ pranam/ Namaste. 'ji' is a way to show respect in Hindi. Different regional languages have their own version of 'ji".
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
I understand. "Namaste". I often hear this from India. I had a friend before from India and he always say namaste every time we talk.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
24 Apr 23
@arunima25 Oh, I see, thanks for the information. I can now use it,
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
24 Apr 23
@Jenaisle Namaste is a way to greet same age group or younger ones. People say Pranam or add ji to Namaste for elderly.
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@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
I still practice the mano and we continue to teach it to the kids. The po and opo is not commonly used in Mindanao. I usually just end every sentence with sir or ma'am.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
I see. It's great the mano po is still common in Mindanao.
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
20 Apr 23
We show respect to old people not part of the family getting up if we are sitting on a chair and shaking the hand. We simply hug the older people part of our family.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
I see. that's great. It expresses warmth.
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
20 Apr 23
@Jenaisle - My paternal grandparents lived with us. I loved to discuss with my grandmother
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• United States
20 Apr 23
Very interesting to learn about the Filipino culture. Respect for old people is something that I think here is becoming less and less. I was always taught to respect my elders.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
That's good. We could express our respect in various ways.
• Eugene, Oregon
21 Apr 23
Yes, we dot that sir and ma'am thing, but I always feel weird when someone calls me "sir" just because I'm older or even a lot older.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
21 Apr 23
I guess there's no other way they could show their respect.
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@LindaOHio (222726)
• United States
28 Apr 23
Your customs are lovely. We speak with respect to older people and give them our seats when we see them standing. I am now a senior; so I expect these things from the younger people.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
28 Apr 23
You're here! That's great. We do that too here. I'm glad we have some similar customs.
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@Laurakemunto (13787)
• Kenya
20 Apr 23
I have seen this kind of greetings among the Muslims in my country so am accustomed to it thanks for sharing
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
20 Apr 23
So, there are Muslims there? Good to know you got acquainted with the gesture.