Do you prefer to marry a virgin?
@cacay1 (83220)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
May 23, 2023 2:53am CST
Don't get me wrong because there are many people who are idealistic forgetting the world that we have at this time is all centered on the internet and people are exploited with what they see. They believe what they see is true. But those who are traditional and old-fashioned stick to their principle.
That is one reason why the husband of my niece in Davao City left her for another woman because she was not anymore a virgin during their marriage. My niece married last month but because of that reason
her husband left her. Where is love? What matters in a relationship is love and the past must be buried behind. And he was not born yesterday. 
. We are so mad at the guy. He should have asked my niece if she is still a virgin or not to cancel the wedding.
Her parents felt so embarrassed and down, so they brought their daughter (my niece ) back home to help her forget her painful ordeal 
. They are now on vacation in Thailand.
What can you say about the husband of my niece? For me, he is coward.
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her husband left her. Where is love? What matters in a relationship is love and the past must be buried behind. And he was not born yesterday. . We are so mad at the guy. He should have asked my niece if she is still a virgin or not to cancel the wedding.
Her parents felt so embarrassed and down, so they brought their daughter (my niece ) back home to help her forget her painful ordeal . They are now on vacation in Thailand.
What can you say about the husband of my niece? For me, he is coward.
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13 responses
@arunima25 (85723)
• Bangalore, India
23 May
If that mattered so much to him for whatever reasons, he should have asked the question long before starting the relationship. It's not fair and justified to end a marriage for such stupid reason.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May
@arunima25 you're so right he should have asked my niece if she's virgin or not. He's indeed stupid. My niece said that her husband was her only boyfriend and never had surrendered herself to any guy.My niece is a cyclist and sn athlete. My family sued the guy because he ran away with another another girl the next day after their marriage.
you're so right he should have asked my niece if she's virgin or not. He's indeed stupid. My niece said that her husband was her only boyfriend and never had surrendered herself to any guy.My niece is a cyclist and sn athlete. My family sued the guy because he ran away with another another girl the next day after their marriage.1 person likes this
@zhangxueying (2945)
• China
23 May
Is her husband a virgin? If he's not, he doesn't have the right to demand that girls be virgins
Men with feudal ideas are very annoying
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May
@zhangxueying, that's a very good question. One girl came out from nowhere broadcasting in. media that her husband was not anymore virgin and she could stand as witness. We referred it to a lawyer. It seems that husband is in a relationship with the girl he is with now. It seems his childhood sweetheart, so he's just making a drama about virginity. My family will sue the husband. It's now on the process. He must pay his treachery.
@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
23 May
He should have asked her his questions first if he was a Puritan. What he did was "disgusting" in the sense that he is so narrow-minded, as there are other reasons why a woman may have a ruptured h_men. It could be a sport she has been engaged in in the past. It could also be due to other reasons.
The man's priority doesn't coincide with mine, I have to say. But he is he and I am, who I am.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May
@Jenaisle it's learned that she's in a relationship with his childhood sweetheart. The other woman just arrived abroad. They might have agreed to run away. The husband might have a visa for other country but the first appearance of the first hearing will be 2nd week of June. The parents of the guy felt so ashamed and won't tolerate his wrongdoing.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May
@Jenaisle, he's narrow - minded. He put our family to big trouble because my niece is so sensitive and vulnerable. We're afraid she would do something bad to herself. We sue her husband for he left his wife and ran away with another girl the next day after their wedding. The lawyer affirmed that he could be sued and charged.
he's narrow - minded. He put our family to big trouble because my niece is so sensitive and vulnerable. We're afraid she would do something bad to herself. We sue her husband for he left his wife and ran away with another girl the next day after their wedding. The lawyer affirmed that he could be sued and charged.1 person likes this
@allknowing (130233)
• India
3 Jun
A similar thing happened to my friend's daughter who he abandoned on the wedding night She got a shock and had to be treated for that It took her years to get back to normalcy and I played a small role She did not remarry but is coping with life well
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@allknowing (130233)
• India
3 Jun
@cacay1 Here in India there is another issue. They expect their brides to be coy and simple In another case the bride showed some boldness. Nothing wrong there but this man thought she was experienced and left her
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Jun
@allknowing, my niece is struggling to face her ordeal. She felt the shame of being neglected. She was on vacation in Thailand for two weeks and she felt better this time. Her parents are always with her afraid she might do something bad to herself. There are people like them, hurting their wives through insults of being not anymore a virgin.
She was on vacation in Thailand for two weeks and she felt better this time. Her parents are always with her afraid she might do something bad to herself. There are people like them, hurting their wives through insults of being not anymore a virgin.1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Jun
@allknowing that was like a nightmare for the girl. That was so hurting.
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 May
@RebeccasFarm that's right freedom is ease.
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@sathviksouvik (18019)
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23 May
I only feel that the partner has to be a good person. It does not matter when she is a virgin or not
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 May
@sathviksouvik, if only that guy is having the same mind set as yours but my niece is a virgin. Her husband was her first boyfriend. He is so unfair.
if only that guy is having the same mind set as yours but my niece is a virgin. Her husband was her first boyfriend. He is so unfair.
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May
@Juliaacv, it's learned from the side of the guy that he's in a relationship with his childhood sweetheart who has just arrived abroad. Thyre6in constant meeting on the web beyond the knowledge of my niece, She's so innocent. We sued the guy and the first appearance in court will be 2nd week of June.
@wolfgirl569 (95959)
• Marion, Ohio
23 May
He should have asked a lot sooner. She is better without him. It shows his true character
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 May
@wolfgirl569, he didn't ask because he knew he's my niece first boyfriend. She's a fresh graduate. My niece is so unlucky first love first killer of her dreams. It's only a scapegoat of the guy because he went away the next day with his childhood sweetheart who have just returned to their place. They were married in Davao city not in Cagayan de Oro City because the parents of the guy can't travel far sickly.
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@stapllotik (1933)
• India
25 May
Is there a blood test or any kind of test that identifies male Virginity?
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 May
@stapllotik, sorry I fo not know.
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@pitsipeahie (4361)
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23 May
The reaction of the man in that scenario is quite extreme. The decision to abruptly leave your wife based solely on that discovery is drastic and unfair especially if he didn't even attempt to address the issue.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May
@pitsipeahie,his motive is clear to accuse my niece if not anymore a virgin because he has a motive to run away with his childhood sweetheart who has just arrived abroad. It seems they were having constant communication beyond the notice ot my niece. She's so innocent. But we sued her husband and awaiting the first appearance 2nd week of June when the husband will be reached.
his motive is clear to accuse my niece if not anymore a virgin because he has a motive to run away with his childhood sweetheart who has just arrived abroad. It seems they were having constant communication beyond the notice ot my niece. She's so innocent. But we sued her husband and awaiting the first appearance 2nd week of June when the husband will be reached.
@MarieCoyle (29153)
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25 May
Personally, if he is that bothered by it, he didn't love her. It wouldn't matter.
I think she is better off without someone like that.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Jun
@MarieCoyle,my niece's rage at her husband has et her feelings for him fly on the air. We sed he guy but so sad he has just left with her mistress.
