Shock and Distress.

@rakski (112925)
Philippines
June 26, 2023 9:05pm CST
I think I still am up to now. I am thankful we were not there when it happened. But it gave me the chills and creeps just to think that it happened. I think I got paranoid for the next few days or weeks after that. I was not able to sleep well thinking someone might get inside the house and all even though we changed locks and add more. Never want to leave my kids alone at home, it is nerve-wracking. I need to check the doors and windows several times before going to bed and check them first thing in the morning. I am grateful that through this, I did not lose my mind and I am still thinking straight though full of anxiety and fear. I am still in the process of moving forward but we are not even halfway there. I hope the time will come and everything will be much better for us. Thank you for reading this, I am grateful somehow I can let this out of me.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
27 Jun
It is but natural when your home is violated by someone you would feel that way. I think what is important is you've secured your house and you are all safe and sound in your house. I think you need to relax for now since having anxiety always is not good for your mental wellness too. You need to convince your mind that it is okay for now to rest and feel secure once again.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
I am much better now but still sometimes, I would still check and re-check the locks and windows and all that
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
5 Jul
@rakski Good for you take advantage of that alertness to good use. If you find some things that could protect your property you act on it. Hopefully, you would feel secure and safe again in your own home.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
@rsa101 yes, that is true. I am thinking of more ways
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@AmbiePam (85593)
• United States
27 Jun
I would be double checking everything too. But I bet they wouldn’t have robbed you if you all had been home. It is way too coincidental, and most robberies occur when the residents are away from their home. That won’t make you feel better, but it is true at least. You’ve been through something incredibly traumatic, and it is wonderful that you are able to see the positives. I really hope you all can heal soon, even though I know it takes time.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
I am glad that my mind is set to see more the positives than the negatives
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
27 Jun
I think I missed a post, did you had someone breaking into your home while you were there?
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
yes, thieves got money for kid's tuition fees
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
5 Jul
@rakski I have found your post later.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
27 Jun
It's natural to feel distressed and worried when your home was invaded. I hope you can move past this soon.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
5 Jul
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
I am a bit better
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
27 Jun
Oh my, that’s just so shocking! I totally understand how you feel
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
thanks
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@Deepizzaguy (94634)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
27 Jun
Thank goodness you are okay after your troubles that you went through.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
thank you
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@Deepizzaguy (94634)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
5 Jul
@rakski You are welcome.
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@snowy22315 (170126)
• United States
27 Jun
I think it is natural when something frightening like that happens that you would have a bit of PTSD for awhile.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
I guess so but I think I am better now
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
27 Jun
I hope you will be able to get to the root of this and catch the culprit That will be a challenge for you. All the best
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
it will be surely a challenge
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@RebeccasFarm (86772)
• United States
23 Nov
I am sorry I missed this..I hope this is okay now
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• United States
23 Nov
@rakski Such a suffering and struggle. I understand. I wish you blessings.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
23 Nov
We are all getting there. But I have to make ways to fill up for the lost finances.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
28 Nov
@RebeccasFarm thank you so much!
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27 Jun
whatever has happened is sad. But at least you all are saved. That is the consolation
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• United States
5 Jul
I don't blame you I would be very unsettle also.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
yes, it is very unsettling
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
29 Jun
Why what happened? I must have missed some of your posts. I also want to increase the security at home. Hard times, isnt it?
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
we got robbed. Money for kid's tuition was taken
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
@yoalldudes scary, disappointing, terrifying
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
5 Jul
@rakski Oh I am sorry. That is scary.
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@prasuns (1288)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jun
It's so sad to hear that and you have to go through all this. Hope everything gets better. Have a wonderful day.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
I am sure it will all go better
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• Philippines
27 Jun
Totally understandable. I hope your kids are okay, too.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
yes, we are all okay which is really good
@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
27 Jun
I would do the same if I were in that situation. I hope everything will be safe and secure once again. This is the reason we have installed CCTV at the door of our residence and a motion-detector light that comes on when it detects movements. Our neighbors have also dogs that warn us when strangers are in the vicinity. I pray you would be able to resolve your problem effectively. Take care
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
we are planning on that now but we have to prioritize the schooling first
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@jstory07 (134395)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Jul
It is natural for you to feel that way. With time you will feel a lot better.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Jul
I am getting better somehow
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
20 Jan
Sorry about the nerve-wracking moment. I wish you all the best in moving on
@Gilljane (2905)
• Sutton, England
3 Oct
Oh gosh! I'm not surprised you have to keep checking I hope you can move forward