Calling a spade a spade

It depends on the situation and the person/people I'm talking with. I prefer to be direct but can easily be diplomatic if the need arises.

I agree with you. I like to call a spade a spade without hurting any feelings if possible.

With me, it depends on how well I know them, and what I surmise about their mental state. If they are in a vulnerable way, I'm going to tell them what they need to hear, but in the kindest way possible. With men though, I admit, I am quite frank in spelling it out to them because that seems to be the most effective way. If I have to be frank with a woman, I go on a case by case basis. I want them to really hear me, but if I don't consider the best way to approach them, it might go in one ear, and out the other.

There is a saying that goes "The truth hurts." when I make a statement on social media that offends sports fans or their favorite celebrities.

Being direct is not always a good thing, depends on the conversation. I am not saying to be dishonest, being tactful is always a good thing in my opinion.

Am always blunt about everything and careless about people and what they think of me why lie? Why tell you something you wanna hear instead of the truth? Am with you in this more than 100 percent

I try to be honest without hurting someone’s feelings.

Every situation is different so I try to act appropriately.

That depends on the situation. But I prefer to tell the truth without hurting the other's feeling.