How do you cope loneliness?
By ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
India
August 1, 2023 11:22pm CST
Sometimes you will come across the time where you are feeling lonely and everyone is busy in their worlds. Sometimes even when you call people they will act like they are busy. Sometimes people will use you and throw you when they do not need. Sometimes you will fee lonely and wishes you could have someone to talk to. Have you come across these situations and how did you cope with it?
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
2 Aug
No, I haven't. I'm sorry you're having that problem.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
2 Aug
Strange that you only depend on people to ward off your loneliness. Your work and activity should be your companion. Good Luck
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
3 Aug
@ajithlal When others if you say are not around there is always a way to kill boredom.
@aninditasen (15744)
• Raurkela, India
2 Aug
This situation comes as we grow old and can't do a lot of work or when we have nothing to do. In my young days I had a very hectic life and now when I am old I keep myself engaged and therefore don't feel lonely.
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@aninditasen (15744)
• Raurkela, India
5 Aug
@ajithlal That's the reason I find some work for myself. Like being on mylot. Responding to Facebook notifications or playing the word games that releases stress.
@jefferson126 (3057)
• Shenzhen, China
2 Aug
I think your description is very widespread in adult world,in fact,everyone will feel lonely from time to time,in other words,everyone had a lonely corner inside heart. coping with loneliness is necessary to everyone.as for me,i will get friend or colleagues for gathering when i feel lonely.Anyway i will get a few companys to kick out loneliness.
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@grantward7 (338)
• Indonesia
2 Aug
Sometimes I go to coffee shop to have fun by myself alone. sometimes I spent the time with my friends. For overall I can cope if I got lonely.
But when you asked if I got a situation that I feel lonely and wishes that I need someone to talk to, usually I just wait in loneliness until someone ready to hear me. I just spent the time by playing games or working something like writing novel, teaching, and so on.
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@jstory07 (134444)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Aug
I agree with LoL @JimBo45020 talk to God. You could also call a friend or come on my lot.
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@innertalks (21030)
• Australia
2 Aug
Perhaps you are seeing loneliness as your enemy; see it as your friend instead.
Nothing can stop you from feeling lonely, except yourself.
We can be lonely in the midst of a crowd, when talking to someone, at any time, really.
We should not look for outside stuff to try to lift our loneliness feelings.
Embrace them instead, and accept that we are all in this world as ourselves, alone as ourselves.
We can connect to others, but in living our own life, we will always be alone in the doing of that.
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