Feeling A Little More Overwhelmed
By YoghurtGal
@flapiz (23272)
United Kingdom
August 13, 2023 10:58am CST
This year I think Andrea and I bit more than we could chew. We have a big holiday coming up to the Philippines for my sister's wedding which costs a lot of money.
We also decided to buy a flat which is waiting mortgage approval. And also hoping to move if we manage to get everything sorted before my holiday.
And also we have decided to get married next year which means we also have to plan the wedding and find a venue. I find myself panicking about all these things hitting me all at once and sometimes it makes me emotional. These are things I look forward to doing but money-wise it does feel almost too much.
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@DaddyEvil (151629)
• United States
13 Aug 23
I'm sorry you're feeling overwhelmed. But you aren't alone and that helps a lot. You always have Andrea to turn to if something feels "too much" for you.
I'm sure everything will go well for you. Good luck!
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@flapiz (23272)
• United Kingdom
13 Aug 23
@DaddyEvil Yeah it frustrates me because if this wedding will be in the Philippines it can be bigger and easier to organise with my mum's help.
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@DaddyEvil (151629)
• United States
13 Aug 23
@flapiz That should be fun! I'm glad you're doing it and not me!
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@AmbiePam (99721)
• United States
13 Aug 23
I can imagine how overwhelming this must all feel, but there is no one better to go through this than with your soon to be husband. Sure, it’s all stressful, but with him, you can have the assurance you won’t have to go through it alone, and you can take one thing at a time. Perhaps you can cut back on every day expenses to at least give yourself a little breathing room; to just feel like you’re doing something to lessen the burden on yourselves. It will all be worth it, and in another year or so this will all be behind you. Try not to forget to take in these potential joyful moments as they come. It’s okay to allow yourself these emotions; just don’t cheat yourself out of potential blessings throughout the process. You can do it. 

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@flapiz (23272)
• United Kingdom
13 Aug 23
I am trying to save 400£ a month from my salary to help with my going home. I should be focusing on the potential goals as you say. If only the world does not cost so much these days. But I guess I will feel better once things unfold one at a time.
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@rsa101 (38881)
• Philippines
15 Aug 23
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I understand how you feel right now. It appears that there are numerous things to keep an eye on and spend money on, and that the budget does not fit well. I believe you should just relax for the time being and face them one by one until the day comes. For the time being, just enjoy what you can and have, and things will fall into place as they get closer.
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@arthurchappell (44987)
• Preston, England
14 Aug 23
congratulations on your engagement - hope it all goes well for you. I have photos of a similar horse statue from Camden @flapiz
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@flapiz (23272)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 23
@arthurchappell Oh wow he looks a lot more prettier than my unicorn 

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@arthurchappell (44987)
• Preston, England
14 Aug 23
@flapiz A horse, called Charlie, my picture of him won't upload sadly - link to page on him here

We are delighted to unveil our new horse statue, designed by the children of Richard Cobden Primary School, and the opening of the Charlie the Horse Exhibition. This artwork was created in 2021 as a part of a competition to reflect the theme Camden: Past,
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@LeaPea2417 (37979)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Aug 23
You could save a lot of money if you and your guy just elope.
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@Marilynda1225 (85032)
• United States
13 Aug 23
I can understand that with everything going on you feel overwhelmed at times. That is a lot but just take a breath and breathe when you start feeling like that. It will all work out . 

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@flapiz (23272)
• United Kingdom
19 Aug 23
It is a great consolation I am in it with a good partner. My family is not much help at the moment as they are busy with my sister's upcoming wedding.

@flapiz (23272)
• United Kingdom
13 Aug 23
I do not want to impose to our parents. But I am praying they would offer to pay a bit 

@moffittjc (124730)
• Gainesville, Florida
17 Aug 23
It can be very overwhelming, but you are taking important steps towards a future great life. So I think it will be well worth it in the end.
Just remember to stop and take a deep breath every now and then and say to yourself, “I can do this!”
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@flapiz (23272)
• United Kingdom
18 Aug 23
@moffittjc I believe you as you are a wise man! 

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@moffittjc (124730)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Aug 23
@flapiz Just take it one step at a time and think positively along the way. Everything you’re doing is to create a better you and a better future for yourself. It will all be worth it in the end!
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@flapiz (23272)
• United Kingdom
14 Aug 23
Thank you Rashna. It is a lot to think about and I really just want to see progress so I am less panicked.
@florelway (23358)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Aug 23
I am happy for you and finally finding your partner. I wish the wedding will be very beautiful as you expect.
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@Beestring (15514)
• Hong Kong
14 Aug 23
You're not alone. Andrea is with you. Plan well and I'm sure everything will go well.
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