Just One More Bill
By Jim Bauer
@porwest (111864)
United States
December 18, 2023 7:12am CST
It is a concept perhaps as old as time, or at least since money has been in the hands of anyone—which has been the case for hundreds of years. Yet, many people still don't heed what happens to be extremely sound advice.
Pay yourself first.
But what exactly does that mean? To me, it is creating a bill that is as important, if not more important to pay as your mortgage or utility bill. If you don't pay these bills what happens? You lose your house, or they shut off your lights.
What happens if you don't pay yourself first, or at least have some mechanism built into your earnings to save? You shut down your future.
A good place to start is simply to start where you can, and to be honest about that. Sometimes by the time you decide you need to start, you've already stretched yourself very thin and then easily make the excuse, "I can't afford to save."
The amount really doesn't matter when you start saving as much as getting into the habit and thinking about saving anything. Even if it's just a dollar a month. But whatever the amount you decide works, simply start doing it and make it a bill that must be paid no matter what, and always look for ways to increase the bill.
All of our bills go up in cost. Why not the one where you will pay yourself? Especially considering as you continue along saving it is likely you will receive raises which you can use to increase savings. Or perhaps you had a car payment and finally paid it off.
Why not continue to make the car payment you are already used to paying, but just put it into your savings instead?
While it sometimes seems like an impossible task, one should always keep in mind that there are as many ways to find to save money as there are ways to find to spend it.
Saving money doesn't necessarily mean living like a pauper. It just means taking care to ensure your future is secure just as much as you are ensuring your house is not repossessed or your lights aren't turned off.
One small caveat. Saving alone will never make you rich. Only investing can do that. But at least you are making some headway by changing your opinion from, "I can't afford to save," to asking the question, "How can I save more?"
Think you'll miss the money? You won't. Because just like all the other bills you have to pay, they are givens, and you just get used to the money going somewhere else besides directly in your pocket.
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@moffittjc (127613)
• Gainesville, Florida
20 Dec 23
I learned many, many years ago to pay myself first before paying any other bills. It’s become such a habit that I don’t even think twice about it. It’s habitual. And I give myself a “raise” every year as well. It’s amazing how quickly it all adds up over the years.
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@moffittjc (127613)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Dec 23
@porwest Make it a habit to keep getting the word out! lol
I think over time more and more people will see the light and start following your financial advice.
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@porwest (111864)
• United States
24 Dec 23
@moffittjc Plus, I get a few more posts out of it. Win, win. lol
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@MommyOfEli2013 (87094)
• Rupert, Idaho
18 Dec 23
I'd have to have money to save any, but that's good advice to think about
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@porwest (111864)
• United States
19 Dec 23
@MommyOfEli2013 You're not a bother. I simply do not believe what you said is true and the whole point of the post was to illustrate that and help to change the mindset. You DO have money, you CAN save money, you just don't want to understand that you have it and where to look for it. A lot of my posts attempt to try to help people to find it.
I can't get through to everyone of course. Some people have made their minds up. But it is also why we will always have a big gap between the rich and the poor, because too many of the poor simply don't want to know where the money is.
If people took as much time learning about money as they do how to work the welfare system, they wouldn't need the welfare system. lol
No harm, no foul. 

@MommyOfEli2013 (87094)
• Rupert, Idaho
19 Dec 23
@porwest I did read it...and I did get the point. And maybe they started off with none but they had ways to make money.
But no worries...I won't be a bother
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@marguicha (229981)
• Chile
18 Dec 23
As I see it, if we invest we want to do it because WE want to live better. So our present as a person and as an investor should be taken into account.
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@marguicha (229981)
• Chile
18 Dec 23
@porwest I decided some time ago (a long time ago) that I did not want to work forever. Life is too short to waste it working, unless you really love what you do.
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@porwest (111864)
• United States
18 Dec 23
The key for me was asking myself a question. "Do I want to have to work forever, or do I want some time to live and enjoy this one life I have been given?" I chose the latter as my answer, and so I made sure to ensure that when the time came to start living, it was at least an option.
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At least you are trying, and maybe someone will listen. 
