How Can You Tell If Your Relationship is on the Rocks?
By DB
@dgobucks226 (37621)
January 26, 2024 3:56pm CST
Over the years I've had some relationships that did not work out and could see the writing on the wall. Other times I just couldn't figure out why they failed. After doing a bit of research, I found some useful information which provided hints as to what might have gone wrong.
Maybe you experienced the same reasons or have your own theories...let's see.
Here are some warning signs that were mentioned that cites a woman's perspective on why a relationship dies, but I think some of these could apply to a man too.
1. The relationship becomes unclear...
-The person seems to have less time for you, shows no effort in communicating their feelings and holds back on being affectionate.
2. Being condescending or patronizing...
-When the person is just telling you what you want to hear without being serious about his intentions.
3. If being with him is harder than being alone...
-When you can't wait for him/her to leave, or their text messages become an annoyance rather than making you excited to hear from them.
4. Lying...
-A white lie to protect your feelings might be acceptable, but an out an out lie leads to mistrust and can have powerful consequences.
5. Possessiveness...
-A little jealousy could be considered a sign that he/she cares for you and does not take the relationship for granted. However, emotional outbursts, suspicions and accusations that their interested in someone else is never a good thing.
***Do you think any of these reasons make sense? Did you ever experience any of these situations?
***How were you able to tell when a relationship you were in wasn't working out?
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@kaylachan (84879)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Jan 24
I've been lucky enough to have been in one serious relationship. And needless to say I didn't really realize I was in one at first. I love my husband very much, and from an outsider's perspective, they can tell even if I don't sometimes.
In high school A few guys had their crushes, but if I'm being honest, it was all one-sided on their part.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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28 Jan 24
To find a partner who gives you unconditional love and acceptance is truly a blessing. Some are not so lucky in love and never find that special person.
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@kaylachan (84879)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Jan 24
@dgobucks226 The funny thing is, George had given up on looking and I really wasn't trying. It just happened.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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1 Feb 24
@kaylachan Oh, now that's a lovely surprise for both of you. How nice! 
@RasmaSandra (98126)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Jan 24
I was lucky my husband and I considered each other as equals and we were able to talk everything out and always went even walking hand in hand. That is why when he passed I knew I had had the best and I would wait until I met him in the next world and I am through with looking for someone, I am alright going on alone,
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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28 Jan 24
Very nice sentiments Rasma. A true love can never be replaced, only reunited in heaven.
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@AmbiePam (121140)
• United States
26 Jan 24
Being condescending is a good way to get me to end a relationship. I dealt with it far too often as a child, and I won’t tolerate it in a romantic relationship. But the fastest I ever ended a relationship was when the guy tried to manipulate me. I was absolutely done.
I heard someone say a counselor said one thing he noticed when he was treating a couple. Every marriage where the man rolled his eyes at his wife ended in divorce. That surprised me, but I guess that would be a good indicator.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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28 Jan 24
I agree with those observations of yours.
You might say it's a lack of respect, disregarding the other one's views, pointing out their flaws, and not compromising, all which can ruin a relationship.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
27 Jan 24
I have experienced the gammat..I never want to ever again.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
28 Jan 24
@dgobucks226 Yes I have heard it for sure.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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28 Jan 24
Yes, maintaining a relationship can be difficult for sure OT. They do say if you never put yourself out there you might be missing out on true love, or something like that. Have you ever heard of that quote?
I'm sure there are many. Here's one I found which rings true...
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@LadyDuck (502812)
• Italy
27 Jan 24
I broke with a boyfriend before dating my husband. It did not happen because of any of the listed reasons.
After a while I realized that I got bored when we were together. I found nothing interesting to discuss with him. I decided it was time to end our relationship. I am with my husband from 54 years.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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28 Jan 24
Yes, that definitely is another good reason for a relationship dying out. You might also say both of you had different priorities.
Congratulations on a long and fruitful marriage. A deep love for one another lasts a lifetime.
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@LadyDuck (502812)
• Italy
29 Jan 24
@dgobucks226 - It was not at all a matter of different priorities, but more different tastes and habits and common interests.
With my husband we have many interests in common.
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@LindaOHio (222806)
• United States
27 Jan 24
My husband and I have been together 58 years and married for 54 in October. It's been rough; but we love each other very much. Have a good weekend.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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28 Jan 24
Congratulations on a long and fruitful marriage.
Sharing those rough times together and making it though, only makes one's love stronger... 



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