My Personal Take on my Four Marriages
By celticeagle
@celticeagle (160064)
Boise, Idaho
February 13, 2024 4:41pm CST
I think I loved all my husbands I just wasn't in love with them. Attraction, interests, etc. and that was about it. Silly me.
I think that I was a good mom while my daughter was little. I think that is a very important formative time for her. Later I wasn't so much. She and I have since discussed those times. She has forgiven me for a lot of bad decisions and poor choices in men. We are good.
I had one real love in my life. He had been hurt very badly by his first wife. They had four sons. She abandoned them pretty much. He did not love me as I loved him and he wasn't up for another marriage. I don't blame him but he did break my heart.
From that time forward I chose men that would teach me something about life. I learned a lot. Looking back I wish I had stayed single. I think it may have been better for all involved.
I will be posting my fourth marriage soon. Get ready cause it's going to be a bumpy ride. It's not like I ever upgraded to better characters, just different.
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@RasmaSandra (74146)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Feb
You sound like Better Davis fasten your seatbelts it's gonna be a bumpy night,
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@RasmaSandra (74146)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Feb
@celticeagle 
I figured you took it from that movie that is why I quoted all the saying in agreement. My relationships and life have also been like being on a roller coaster and those really high points have been like tumbling into the depths afterward
I figured you took it from that movie that is why I quoted all the saying in agreement. My relationships and life have also been like being on a roller coaster and those really high points have been like tumbling into the depths afterward1 person likes this
@celticeagle (160064)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Feb
@RasmaSandra .......I know what you mean. I guess we'd be bored with people who didn't like an argument or to fight.
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@Itsonlyadream (239)
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14 Feb
I love your take on four marriages. You have lived it and seen the best and worst of times. I hope you are doing well now. I get way too involved in my wife's family and get close to everyone. If I was to get married again and again I would have lots of relatives through marriage that I wouldn't know where to begin or end. Were you able to cut ties with their family members or did you still stay close after the marriages ended. It gets too complicated for me.
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@celticeagle (160064)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Feb
Thank you, Michael. My third marriage was the only one where I really got to know my in-laws. I wish we could have remained closer but RK made that difficult by saying he'd disown them all if they continued a relationship with me. We still did to some extent but only for a while.
@Itsonlyadream (239)
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15 Feb
@celticeagle There are some mean people in the world. They say what goes around comes around. I think we just have to wait and see. I am sure his relatives know what kind of person he is and they will get tired of his foolish ways.
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@celticeagle (160064)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Feb
@Itsonlyadream ........Hopefully. Karma will take care of it.
@shaggin (71678)
• United States
15 Feb
@celticeagle I will hopefully to get to the four marriage posts soon
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@celticeagle (160064)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Feb
Yeah, my daughter is my only reason for recognizing my first marriage. The other three I purged from my brain with these recent posts. Gone and mostly forgotten.
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@RebeccasFarm (86976)
• United States
14 Feb
Sounds like your 'man picker' was out of order like mine
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@celticeagle (160064)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Feb
I think so. Looking back I wish I'd only married the first one and had my daughter.
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@RebeccasFarm (86976)
• United States
16 Feb
@celticeagle Yes I can relate to that too.
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@celticeagle (160064)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Feb
They were adventures and I like to think of them more that way.
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@just4him (308798)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Feb
@celticeagle I'm glad you can think of them that way.
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@mildredtabitha (16087)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Feb
Did you do all your four marriages in a church with a white dress and flowers or did you just move in and start living with each of your partners?
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@celticeagle (160064)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Feb
None were church weddings since I am an atheist. Never wore a wedding gown either.
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@LindaOHio (158794)
• United States
14 Feb
I made some poor choices too. Fortunately I didn't marry them. Have a good day.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
14 Feb
Many of us have made not so good choices when it camre to love and men but the important thing was that wr lived, learned and move on.
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