Missing You / myLot

February 17, 2024 6:45pm CST

Today February 17th is the 1st anniversary of my mother's death - and the pain is still there. During the earlier months if something terribly interesting happened l would reach for my phone to call her and discuss whatever it was - then reality would hit me and l would face the fact that she is gone, forever. I can never talk to her on the phone or face to face ever again. This is so hard. I miss her so much.

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Juliaacv

@Juliaacv (54717)

• Canada

18 Feb 24

I am sorry that you are enduring this. It is so hard when we usually reach out to them for chats on the phone and they are no more. I'm sure that she is looking down on you from above.

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Juliaacv

@Juliaacv (54717)

• Canada

18 Feb 24

@Kandae11

Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

Thank you very much.

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90737)

• Arvada, Colorado

18 Feb 24

I am so sorry for your grief Kandase..we only have one Mother RIP yours and mine. I know the feeling very well.

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90737)

• Arvada, Colorado

18 Feb 24

@Kandae11 You are welcome friend..yes very very good.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

Thank you . Especially when that mother has been a very good mother.

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vikingswest

@Vikingswest1 (7446)

• United States

18 Feb 24

My thoughts are with you today.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

Thank you very much.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (44133)

• United States

18 Feb 24

Kandase, I know this is so hard for you. Sounds like you were blessed with a wonderful mother.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

I was, thank you.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (364832)

• Rockingham, Australia

18 Feb 24

My mother has been gone ten years but I still miss her just as much as I did when she first passed away.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

I can understand.

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M Cheung

@Beestring (15380)

• Hong Kong

18 Feb 24

I can understand your feeling. My mom passed more than 20 years ago. I still miss her a lot.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

She was my rock.

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Heather Echola

@GardenGerty (166207)

• United States

18 Feb 24

I have many people I miss that I would love to talk to and just chat.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

I understand how it can be.

Amber

@AmbiePam (105265)

• United States

18 Feb 24

My heart goes out to you. Our mothers are so special, and I imagine your pain is just so tremendous.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

She was also my best friend.

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snowy

@snowy22315 (198114)

• United States

18 Feb 24

Awww,

. Could you still talk to her? I know she won't be able to answer you..but who really knows what those who pass on might be able to sense.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

I should try.

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Judy Story

@jstory07 (146260)

• Roseburg, Oregon

18 Feb 24

Sorry for your loss. You will miss her forever.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

She is in my heart forever.

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RasmaSandra

@RasmaSandra (90351)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

18 Feb 24

I know what that missing is . I lost my mom back in 1996 but still the missing goes on. I am sure she is with you in sprit. On anniversaries I usually light a candle,

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

Thank you for the thought. I will light a candle.

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Manuela Lopes

@nela13 (59125)

• Portugal

18 Feb 24

I am so sorry, I believe it is extremelly hard. Our moms should be eternal.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

When we lose a loved one we can't take a pill to ease the pain.

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Manuela Lopes

@nela13 (59125)

• Portugal

18 Feb 24

@Kandae11 we can't, unfortunately that is true.

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Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99356)

• Canada

18 Feb 24

Mothers are so special. It is so hard to loss them. My mom will be gone 10 years on the 25th. I miss her so much. Thinking of you and sending virtusl hugs.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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18 Feb 24

Thank you.

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Diana

@dya80dya (36790)

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19 Feb 24

I still have my mom, but I miss my grandmother a lot. We talked often and she loved me a lot. I am very sorry for your loss. When time passes we miss them more and more.

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (56800)

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19 Feb 24

Make the most of every day.

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Diana

@dya80dya (36790)

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21 Feb 24

@Kandae11 We argue a lot. I wish we had a better relationship. I will try to make the most of every day.

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