The carpet is pink!

@Fleura (29192)
United Kingdom
April 5, 2024 10:01am CST
This week both our girls are away so I have decided to have a spring clean of their rooms. When they are here and we complain about the mess they say they are trying to tidy up, but honestly I think it’s got so bad they are overwhelmed! Little One’s room is covered in paper and various other odds and ends and her bed is full of soft toys, while Big One’s room is so bad that just getting from the door to the window to open the curtains is like a game of Twister, and even the spaces where you can just about put a foot down are only big enough to tiptoe. And the dust over everything is unbelievable! So I have spent two evenings trying to restore some semblance of order to Big One’s room. The floor was covered in clothes, books, and papers of all sorts and lots of other random bits. I picked up all the clothes, hung the clean ones in the wardrobe and washed all the others. I put every book that I could fit on the shelves, anything that looked like a notebook (of which she has more than a lifetime’s supply) or pad of paper together in a drawer, writing paper I put back downstairs with our stash of writing paper and cards, pieces of wrapping paper I put with the general wrapping paper collection, pens and pencils together in a pot, post-it notes and glue in the bureau, art materials all together in a basket, edible things together, beauty stuff and cosmetics in a drawer, sports medals hung up. Books of mine that she had borrowed I decided might as well go back on the shelves they came from rather than lie around on her floor any longer. I stripped the bed, washed all the bedding and replaced it, washed her pyjamas, put away the extra winter blanket, stuck the notice board on the wall, hung the bed curtain up again properly. Sheet music I took downstairs to go with the other music. School notes I put together on the shelf. I was still left with several piles of paper and nowhere particular to put them but I dusted those, vacuumed around them, moved them and vacuumed underneath, and put them tidily so we could actually get past. Once her exams are over maybe she will finally have time to look through them. I carefully dusted all the ornaments and the heap of random jewellery. I gathered up all the receipts for everything she has ever bought and put them aside so she can decide if she actually wants them when she gets back. The same with old ‘to do’ lists and lists of things to pack for various trips. I was careful not to throw anything away, even the inexplicable little strips of paper with one line of highlighter on (!) I carefully gathered together. At intervals I vacuumed some of the newly-exposed carpet. Then I vacuumed it again. I cleared the cobwebs from around the windows and behind the furniture, dusted the craft stuff under the bed, then I vacuumed the carpet again. Finally it is revealed as pink rather than dusty grey! Finally, after two long evenings, I think it’s as good as I can make it. The place is barely recognisable. I suspect she won’t be pleased that I have moved her stuff but I didn’t read it, I just glanced at things to decide what category they should go in. And when you open the door now it certainly has a totally different feeling, much more inviting and restful and not just total chaos! Little One’s room is next. I’ve washed and dried the bedding, but although there’s slightly less mess in her room it’s harder to sort because it seems random. I think everything may have to just go in one big box! Wish me luck! The picture shows the 'after' version - still a lot of stuff, but I wish I had taken a 'before' picture for comparison! All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2024.
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@LadyDuck (458689)
• Switzerland
5 Apr
Shame you did not take a "before" version. My Mom was very strict, everything not put away before I went to school in the morning ended in the trash can.
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@sabtraversa (12991)
• Italy
5 Apr
@LadyDuck Yes! The 'before' photo would have made things more interesting but poor girl, she needs some privacy. So it's up to our imagination. My father used to say 'whatever is not in the right place will be thrown out the balcony' but he never did so, as someone would have had to remove the stuff from the street and it might have not been me. Now with mandatory recycling and private garbage cans, the 'trash threat' doesn't work anymore.
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@LadyDuck (458689)
• Switzerland
5 Apr
@sabtraversa My father never "menaced" to throw things, but my Mom threw several things of my brother. No garbage recycling in those years, she threw everything in the garbage.
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr
I guess that worked but I could never throw her things away. I don't need it to be perfect but it got to the state where it was impossible to clean and that was way too much.
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@JudyEv (326102)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Apr
As you say, Big One probably won't be pleased but you were very wise not to chuck anything out. That is the main thing.
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr
I would be furious if anyone threw anything of mine away! I can't understand those people who chuck out their partner's things while they are out. That would be a deal breaker for me!
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr
@JudyEv But of course as soon as he sees it he'll be like 'Oh yes I remember this!' and 'I always wondered what happened to these!'
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@JudyEv (326102)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Apr
@Fleura I have a box of my son's things - the one in Ireland. There are tickets from concerts, notes written in school to mates and teachers, all sorts of rubbish (to me). Next time he comes home he is definitely going to sit down and go through it. I'm sure most of it will get thrown out but I'm not doing it. I probably could as, after 35+ years of never having seen any of it, I doubt he needs it now.
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@tkonlinevn (6383)
• Vietnam
6 Apr
The room is so cute. And you are amazing. You're probably very tired after spending all day cleaning the rooms!
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr
You're right, I am very tired! And very behind with my actual (paid) work! But I had to seize the opportunity!
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@sabtraversa (12991)
• Italy
5 Apr
What a lovely room! It's small, I can see how it's hard to keep everything tidy, finding the right place where to put clutter takes a load of mental effort, I know that very well. Your post is inspirational to me, my room needs some 'love' as well. I can see the floor but that doesn't make it any better than what the Big One's room looked like before, I imagine.
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr
Good luck, it will be worth it! I keep going back to Big One's room to admire it, it looks and feels so different you wouldn't believe!
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@Ronrybs (17840)
• London, England
7 Apr
Pink is one colour I'd be avoiding!
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr
I wouldn't have chosen a pink carpet either but it was there when we bought the house and seemed clean and in decent condition so it's still there, we don't believe in throwing things out just for the sake of change.
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@Ronrybs (17840)
• London, England
8 Apr
@Fleura No, I'm with you on this one. Just live with it until the day it needs replacing
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@Shivram59 (31904)
• India
6 Apr
@Fleura Wow!!It looks so clean and wonderful !! But you have worked very hard and must have got exhausted.Now it's time for you to take a rest and wait for the girls to see how they react.I hope it will be a pleasant surprise to them.
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@besweet (9861)
• Ireland
5 Apr
The room is lovely. I can understand exactly what you mean. My daughter is still very young but we tidy up together when it gets messy. Hope she keeps the habit when she grows older too.
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@besweet (9861)
• Ireland
7 Apr
@Fleura It can happen to everyone. Hope she will be happy to see the difference when she is back. School starts tomorrow, she will start the new term with a clean room!
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr
It is a nice room when in a habitable state! I think it all just gets too much for her and then she loses control and just avoids the issue. I hope your daughter does better.
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr
@besweet We have another week off here.
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@jstory07 (134525)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Apr
The after picture looks really nice. I hope the girls do not get mad at you. You never know with children.
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
8 Apr
They might be annoyed but I think secretly they will also be relieved.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49067)
• United States
15 Apr
It looks all neat and tidy.
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@Fleura (29192)
• United Kingdom
16 Apr
It was totally transformed!
@LindaOHio (156717)
• United States
6 Apr
Wow! You did a lot of work. I hope the girls appreciate it. Have a good weekend.
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