My Favorite Policeman Ever Born
By Kharla Jolly
@kobesbuddy (78833)
East Tawas, Michigan
June 6, 2024 2:10pm CST
Christian has been a wonderful addition to our family. He married my daughter 13 years ago, in Romeo, Michigan
They had purchased a home to reside in where they are raising Aubrey, their little girl.
When I first met Christian, he had recently lost his mother to cancer. He lived with his mother and took care of her, until her very last day. She was really good to him!
I didn't know this, he wasn't verbal about sharing the pain he carried inside his heart. My daughter became his best friend, which put a little spark back in his life. They fell in love!
After they got married, Christian keeps calling me Mom. He has actually adopted me, as a fill in for the mother whom he loved dearly. Christian really loves me.
We became acquainted with Christian's father, his sister Rachel and his older brother Jonathan. Both of them have beautiful families, we share most holiday's with.
Christian's Dad passed away a couple weeks ago. This was another adjustment that he's struggling to handle.
Christian's job is not easy, facing various acts of crime 5-6 days a week. Then, he drives home, where he shares a loving atmosphere with my daughter Mari Lyn and Aubrey.
I love this man, he's a beautiful son-in-law! (Policeman)
After they got married, Christian keeps calling me Mom. He has actually adopted me, as a fill in for the mother whom he loved dearly. Christian really loves me.
We became acquainted with Christian's father, his sister Rachel and his older brother Jonathan. Both of them have beautiful families, we share most holiday's with.
Christian's Dad passed away a couple weeks ago. This was another adjustment that he's struggling to handle.
Christian's job is not easy, facing various acts of crime 5-6 days a week. Then, he drives home, where he shares a loving atmosphere with my daughter Mari Lyn and Aubrey.
I love this man, he's a beautiful son-in-law! (Policeman)11 people like this
9 responses
@crossbones27 (52905)
• Mojave, California
6 Jun 24
Much respect and know he is one of the good ones and its not easy even dealing with the bad ones let alone fighting crime. No one tells the job comes with extra stress from your own side. Hopefully everyone cleaning that up. I know police around here much better than they used to be. No more 5 10 year old black boys sitting on the curb. That crap still makes me shake my head.
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@crossbones27 (52905)
• Mojave, California
6 Jun 24
@kobesbuddy I hear,you, its not a fun job. Most people go in a job trying to make things better. That job is like lets just not let it get worse. It must be very frustrating and I am sure he knows this but does not bring it home to his family. It hardest thing in the world to do.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Jun 24
@crossbones27 Some days, Christian is very distraught and grouchy. This is caused by his job issues, not his home life.
@LeaPea2417 (40029)
• Toccoa, Georgia
6 Jun 24
Being a policeman is a hard job. I do admire them.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Jun 24
And being a policeman near the Detroit area, it's a ruthless job! @LeaPea2417
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
7 Jun 24
Great sons in laws or daughters in law are blessings from God.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Jun 24
I have both and appreciate them, very much. Kristine has wonderful parents, she treats me good, also.

@Juliaacv (56207)
• Canada
7 Jun 24
@kobesbuddy I am the same way.
I just want peace, harmony and love in my family.
@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Jun 24
I've heard jokes about the wicked step mother or the hideous mother-in-law. I made a vow to never fit into those hateful patterns, that cause a young couple to fight and separate.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Jun 24
Christian treats me no different than he did his own Mom. When I'm old and dying, I pray that he will take care of me, also.
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@LindaOHio (222314)
• United States
7 Jun 24
You are truly blessed. Except for cousins, my husband's family has all passed away. We are the oldest living relatives. God bless Christian. He has a tough job. Have a good weekend.
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@LindaOHio (222314)
• United States
8 Jun 24
@kobesbuddy That's very sad. That's a very large family!
@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Jun 24
I grew up in a family, with siblings that jockeyed for a throne. Either they were the top banana or everyone suffered in the household.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Jun 24
Christian treats me like he did his own mother. Hopefully, when I'm old and dying, he will do the same thing for me.
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