Remembering My Father: A Year Since That Summer Morning

@rsa101 (38466)
Philippines
April 22, 2025 6:21pm CST
It has been a year since that quiet, scorching summer morning changed my life forever. The sun had barely risen, and the heat was already creeping in through the windows when the news arrived — my father was gone. Just like that, without warning. The moment felt surreal, as if time itself paused to mark the beginning of a pain I had never known. The day his life ended became the day my world cracked open. It was a traumatic moment that has since replayed in my mind countless times — the disbelief, the overwhelming sadness, and the silence that followed the initial shock. I still remember how the heat outside seemed to mirror the heaviness in my chest. Everything felt still, except for the quiet ache that settled in. My father was many things to me — a steady presence, a quiet strength, a source of wisdom and comfort. His untimely departure left a space that no one else can fill. Over the past year, I’ve learned how grief reshapes you, how memories become lifelines, and how love endures even in absence. As I mark this first anniversary, I honor him not just with tears but with gratitude. I carry his lessons, his laughter, and the love he gave so freely. The pain may never fully leave, but neither will the bond we shared. He lives on — in my heart, in my choices, and in the quiet moments when I still feel him near.
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@allknowing (144754)
• India
23 Apr
What more can you do than to express your thoughts the way you have in this post You truly loved him and will forever. May his soul rest in peace
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
24 Apr
I hadn’t planned on writing anything here, but yesterday, a rush of emotions just came pouring in. Before I knew it, I found myself sharing it here on MyLot—it felt like the only way to let some of it out.
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@allknowing (144754)
• India
24 Apr
@rsa101 Good you have myLot to express your thoughts.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
24 Apr
@allknowing That is true I am not a regular poster in here but that moment gave me some idea and inspiration to write about it.
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@arunima25 (90080)
• Bangalore, India
23 Apr
That's a heartfelt post. And you are honouring him si beautifully keeping the emotions alive for him, cherishing his love and memories. He is watching you from somewhere up there and smiling
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
24 Apr
It was a last-minute post that motivated me while I was experiencing a lot of emotions and had no other option to let them out except to write them down.
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@arunima25 (90080)
• Bangalore, India
25 Apr
@rsa101 Writing down emotions is so therapeutic. Happy that you did it. It's touching and I am sure that you felt much better after writing it down.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
25 Apr
@arunima25 I was right when I said that writing about it felt better and more calming than keeping those feelings to myself.
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@kaylachan (77310)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Apr
As you should.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
24 Apr
@kaylachan That is true you can call it spur of the moment kind of thing.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
24 Apr
Thanks, one of those days when your thoughts come rushing in and the urge to write it down just gave me the inspiration to write it down here.
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@kaylachan (77310)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Apr
@rsa101 Writing it down can be bery therputic.
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@jstory07 (143662)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Apr
I hope you have a lot of good memories of him.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
24 Apr
I think there are a lot of both good and the bad ones even. But still I love and fully respect him as my father.
@MarieCoyle (43201)
24 Apr
Your tribute to your beloved father brought tears to me. I am glad you can honor him with such wonderful words and feelings, so very special. Thank you for sharing this with us.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
25 Apr
Oh, I am so sorry I brought you to tears; I did not mean to bring anyone else down. However, the feelings I experienced that day were accurate, and I felt compelled to write them down because it seemed right.
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@MarieCoyle (43201)
25 Apr
@rsa101 Don't be sorry. It made me recall some good times with my own Dad, and I love to think about those. It's good to appreciate those who helped to shape us who we are today.
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@grenery8 (16317)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Apr
i'm sorry you lost him but it is great to hear you have only honorable words for him.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
25 Apr
Thanks it a burst of emotions that created me to capture those into words. A spontaneous one that came in that I need to write it down for closure.
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@grenery8 (16317)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
27 Apr
@rsa101 closure is most when we're talking about deep relations. i'm glad this writing helped you to accomplish that.
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@JudyEv (351931)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Apr
What a lovely tribute to your late father. I'm sure he is very proud of you.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
25 Apr
I really hope so. While we weren’t exactly the closest when he was alive, losing him hit me in a way that was incredibly intense and hard to put into words.
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@Shiva49 (27146)
• Singapore
23 Apr
You really miss him - heartfelt tribute. Losing a parent makes us feel alone in this world. I have lost both my parents but I feel their presence everyday.
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@rsa101 (38466)
• Philippines
24 Apr
The word miss feels far too small to capture everything I felt after yesterday. I found myself at a loss for words, unsure how to fully express the depth of it all. But for now, I’m learning to let go—accepting that he’s no longer with us here on earth. Perhaps in another time, in another place, our paths will cross again.
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