My eldest sister passed away

@cacay1 (84699)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
April 25, 2025 7:43am CST
Tomorrow we're going to Bukidnon to attend the wake of our elder sister who passed away the other day due to cardiac arrest. She's in her mid 70s. It's so sad and sorrowful but that's life,there is no forever. I have not met my sister almost 12 years. She also didn't attend during our family reunion every December. Her husband also passed away 8 years ago. We'll leave home tomorrow morning at with my two sisters, brother in law and me . We hired a driver to drive our car. I don't drive long distance places. It takes us to reach Bukidnon 3 hours. I pray God to protect us in going there. Thanks guys for reading.
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@celticeagle (174295)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Apr
I am so sorry for your loss. I am in my mid-70s so I get it. Stay safe.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@celticeagle my elder sister had a heat attack 4 months ago that weaken her. Her son, my nephew passed away at age 40 because of cancer. That was the beginning of the health deterioration of my elder sister. I pity my nephews and niece they are now orphans. The husband of my elder sister passed away in 2014.
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@celticeagle (174295)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr
@cacay1 .......Are you nearby? What an awful thing for them to go through. How old are they?
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Apr
@celticeagle they're in their 30's and married already. They're working and living from different cities
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@MarieCoyle (43724)
25 Apr
I am so sorry about the loss of your sister. Yes, earthly life does come to an end, but we still miss the ones we have lost. Be safe.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@MarieCoyle, thank you so much Marie, it hurts
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Apr
@MarieCoyle it truly hearts. It's excruciating. But that's life we have to accept .
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@MarieCoyle (43724)
27 Apr
@cacay1 It truly does. When I lost my sister, it was like losing an arm or a leg. We were very close. I am thankful I have my memories of her. Be kind to yourself, Erly.
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@rakski (135802)
• Philippines
26 Apr
I am so sorry to know this. May her soul rest in peace. Sending hugs
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@rakski (135802)
• Philippines
28 Apr
@cacay1 oh my. such a sad moment for all of you
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@rakski (135802)
• Philippines
29 Apr
@cacay1 I am sure you will overccome all of this
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Apr
@rakski yes so sad and my sister in law is hospitalised. We're bombarded with trials.
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@Deepizzaguy (109603)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
25 Apr
Sorry to learn that your older sister passed away.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@Deepizzaguy thank you so much George .
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Apr
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@Deepizzaguy (109603)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
27 Apr
@cacay1 You are welcome.
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@grenery8 (16671)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
26 Apr
i am really sorry. take care, we are with you in your thoughts
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@grenery8 thank you so much. My heart was broken. My nephew her son just passed away 4 weeks ago. I pity them.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Apr
@grenery8 yeah and my sister in law is also sick and is now confined in the hospital. We're bombarded with trials.
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@grenery8 (16671)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
27 Apr
@cacay1 that is two sudden i agree, 2 tragic losses. it takes time, sorry again
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25 Apr
So sorry for your loss.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@Ineeddentures, Thank you so much Jim.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@Ineeddentures Just arrived home from Bukidnon, feeling tired from s long trip m
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27 Apr
@cacay1 Nice to see you again, it's been a while.
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@snowy22315 (189343)
• United States
25 Apr
Very sorry to hear about the loss of your sister.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@snowy22315, thank you so much, your words here comfort me
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@snowy22315 (189343)
• United States
27 Apr
@cacay1 I am glad.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Apr
@snowy22315 thanks .
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@much2say (57537)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Apr
My heart goes out to you and your family, Erly. I'm so sorry for the loss of your sister - may she rest in peace.
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@much2say (57537)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Apr
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Apr
@much2say thanks for the virtual hugs
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@much2say thank you so much for your comforting words. It hurts but there's nothing I can do but accept and move on .
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@allknowing (145528)
• India
26 Apr
May her soul rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@allknowing thank you much .
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@RebeccasFarm (94523)
• Arvada, Colorado
25 Apr
I am so sorry Erly
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@RebeccasFarm than you dear it's truly sorrowful. What a harsh reality. Thanks for the virtual hugs .
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• Arvada, Colorado
27 Apr
@cacay1 You are more than welcome..please take comfort in the Lord xo RIP your dear sister
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Apr
@RebeccasFarm, thanks and God bless us all .
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@Ronrybs (20539)
• London, England
26 Apr
Sorry to hear the sad news. Have a safe journey
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@Ronrybs, thank you Ron. We're so tired from a long travel. This day my elder was buried. May she rest in eternal peace
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@nela13 (58902)
• Portugal
5 May
I am so sorry for your loss, may her soul rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 May
@nela13,thank you so much.
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@sarik1 (7566)
26 Apr
Sorry yo hear. RIP
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@sarik1, Thanks Sarika.
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@Neil43 (3923)
26 Apr
We're sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@Neil43,thank you Neil
@FourWalls (74570)
• United States
25 Apr
My prayers and condolences for you and your family.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@FourWalls,thank you so much, your words here comfort me
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@LeaPea2417 (37833)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Apr
I'm sorry to read this. May she RIP.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@LeahPea2417, Thank you so much Anne. I pray God to give my elder sister eternal peace.
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@wolfgirl569 (115956)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Apr
So sorry. Have a safe trip
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@wolfgirl569 Thank you so much Eva. Your comforting words ease some pains that carry.
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@RasmaSandra (84878)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Apr
So sorry for you loss, Many blessings to your family,
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@RasmaSabdra thank you Ras
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@iniaku (2193)
• Indonesia
25 Apr
very sorry to hear about your loss of your sister. May her soul rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@iniaku, thank you so much, Lin.
@Beestring (15352)
• Hong Kong
25 Apr
I am so sorry. May her soul rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (84699)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr
@Beestring thank you so much. Your kind words comfort me
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