Sad News
By Fishmomma
@Fishmomma (11411)
United States
April 28, 2025 1:42am CST
Its been hard to get everything done this year. My husband and I were together 40 years and he passed away. I know it gets better in time. but right now I'm not there now. Any tips appreciated. I have been writing in a notebook and remembering better times over the years. Hope all are well.
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@crossbones27 (50590)
• Mojave, California
28 Apr
That might be the only way write or something to get the emotion out. Time does not heal wounds, it just makes you feel better because you think you understand it better. That's all I got mother and two favorite dogs will make me cry like a baby till this day, but it will be a happy cry. Sorry for your loss, it stings for a long time , but good people music and other things.
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@Fishmomma (11411)
• United States
28 Apr
Thanks for posting. I will turn on some music today and remember the good times.
@tello_monthol (15)
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30 Apr
just pray that your husband is at peace in the afterlife, don't get lost in sadness or your health will decline let's start thinking forward to live and be enthusiastic about life by doing positive activities or activities so that little by little it can be cured may God bless you, O strong woman
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@Fishmomma (11411)
• United States
3 May
Thanks and yes I'm looking forward, as he is no longer in pain. I plan to do more walking this spring and saying hello to my neighbors.
@Fishmomma (11411)
• United States
4 May
@tello_monthol I have been walking short distances. Its helping me to reduce stress.
@tello_monthol (15)
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3 May
@Fishmomma That's right, so that the brain can refresh a bit to calm down and take a walk because life must go on
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@Fishmomma (11411)
• United States
28 Apr
Thanks for the prayers. Hope all is well there.
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@allknowing (145946)
• India
28 Apr
Reminiscing happy memories will help you somewhat Sad that you are in mourning now
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@Fishmomma (11411)
• United States
28 Apr
Thanks for posting. I am lucky to have people come post to help me feel better.
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@Fishmomma (11411)
• United States
30 Apr
Thanks for posting and I'm finding writing is helping me to express feelings. Many people have told me to think about the good times.
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@JudyEv (353594)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 May
@Fishmomma I don't know what else to suggest but try to be kind to yourself and give yourself time to get over your loss. It takes longer for some than for others. 
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@Fishmomma (11411)
• United States
30 Apr
Thanks and yes the new journey has been hard. I appreciate all the good wishes from everyone.
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