I'm DONE WAITING on you. . .

Cloverdale, Indiana
April 28, 2025 5:21am CST
After 3 yrs of waiting on someone to do what they said they would do & has plenty of time to do it & hasn't, I did it myself, I went over to his place & got my lg tote box & told him I'm done waiting just like you told me. I didn't beat around the bush & let him know I'm done with him, he's the 1 I was doing his pond B-4 I got sick & did most the work & when I got sick & it took me almost 2 yrs to get back on my feet, he worked on the pond cause as he said "I was done waiting on me" But what he done to the pond wasn't what I was going to do, but being he did what he done with it I'm not fixing it & told him it's on him to finish it. I can't deal with a person that is all talk & no action so I'm done with him, I got more important things to do than to deal with a dead beat.
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@crossbones27 (50781)
• Mojave, California
4 May
@2ndchances24 I hear what you saying but life is hard. If he lied to you that is a big difference than things out of his control and came up short. Many people put things on others then never understand why certain things did not get done. Life is full of interruptions and things out of your control. If that is not the case, then I get what you are saying.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
7 May
I don't get why people do what they do, but I know with me if I say I'm going to do something I do it, I don't just talk about doing it, unlike others I know.
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• Mojave, California
10 May
@2ndchances24 Fair enough.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
11 May
@crossbones27 I've always been1 to think things out B-4 telling or doing it.
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@porwest (100979)
• United States
28 Apr
Sometimes the best thing to do is to take matters in your own hands. I find this is true 99.9% of the time.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
28 Apr
I've always had to make the 1st move on everything I wanted done no matter what it was If I wanted it done I had to start in & THEN husband would think he's being out done by me & put up a let me show you how it's done act & I just walk away for him to do it.
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@porwest (100979)
• United States
29 Apr
@2ndchances24 I guess so long as you know the trick, no harm no foul. lol
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
3 May
@porwest I seem to get a lot more done that way or if I ask him for his thought on something he'll find a way to get it done for me & that's how I get SOME stuff done that he hasn't done.
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@snowy22315 (191058)
• United States
3 May
At least idmf you do it yourself it will get done.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
3 May
"idmf" Huh?
• United States
28 Apr
At least doing it yourself you know it's going to be the way you want it.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
28 Apr
That's so true , or if you want to show someone you can do it, start something & see if a man don't come up & take over mine does it every time, that's why I have to wait till he takes a nap so I can do what I need done without a lot of fuss cause every time he does something & it doesn't go just right it's Sh-t this & Sh-t that where I can't deal with it.