How to choose?

@Fleura (31676)
United Kingdom
May 9, 2025 5:30am CST
Last weekend there was a VE day event in the village, and for that we needed plenty of glasses. There were not enough available in the village hall, and the cost of hiring them, although not that much per glass, added up to quite a lot when we needed a couple of hundred - and we were aiming to raise money for charity so didn’t want to waste it unnecessarily! So I decided to see what I could manage to scavenge and cobble together. I scoured the local charity shops, house clearance place and Freegle and managed to accumulate enough, and more cheaply than the hire cost. The drawback was it was me that paid for them – but I did get a free ticket to the event for helping out and I still have the glasses. I was going to give some to a friend. She often offers me a glass of wine when I go round but last time confessed that all her wine glasses had got broken (she has very careless children!) Of the 18 wine glasses I have available, no more than two match. She wouldn’t mind that, as they are quite likely to get broken in due course anyway! But how to decide which to give her? It wasn’t a simple case of picking a set of six. Should I give her the more elegant ones or the sturdier ones? Larger or smaller? I couldn’t decide. But in the end I decided on a rather unconventional criterion – I chose to keep the ones that made the nicest sound All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2025.
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@JudyEv (353170)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 May
That seems as good a way as any to pick what to keep and what to give away.
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@Fleura (31676)
• United Kingdom
9 May
I guess it isn't surprising that they all sound different, but some sound much nicer than others!
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@JudyEv (353170)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 May
@Fleura Are the better quality ones supposed to sound better?
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@Fleura (31676)
• United Kingdom
9 May
@JudyEv I'm not sure, that might be the case. Some of them sound really nice. I wish I could play you a little tune on them!
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@wolfgirl569 (115913)
• Marion, Ohio
9 May
Give her what you don't want to keep. Then she will have several
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@choijungeun (2673)
• Hangzhou, China
9 May
I'll give her the sturdier,it will be safer.
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@DaddyEvil (147884)
• United States
9 May
You could have chosen by asking her kids which glasses they'd leave alone... If you like their tone, then so much the better.
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@DaddyEvil (147884)
• United States
9 May
@Fleura I'm glad Pretty was a quiet child. She could be rambunctious but I never lost anything glass that was on tables or in cabinets.
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@Fleura (31676)
• United Kingdom
9 May
@DaddyEvil Life has been very civilised here too, we never even moved things out of reach or anything like that. My friend's children, in my opinion, are very rude, demanding, careless and generally quite badly behaved, even my girls think so! (and they are friends with Little One). But my friend is obviously OK with their behaviour or at least she doesn't tell them to improve!
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@Fleura (31676)
• United Kingdom
9 May
They don't even notice them, they just go rampaging around knocking things over right and left.
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@LindaOHio (188481)
• United States
10 May
Those with the nicest sound were most likely crystal! I hope your friend likes her glasses.
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