People Still Fall for Romance Scammers
By Loretta
@noni1959 (10395)
United States
May 27, 2025 9:17pm CST
I found a documentary called, "Hey Beautiful: Anatomy of a Romance Scam." With all the information out there about scammers, it's amazing men and women continue to fall for the scams.
Many of the romance scams go after those that are older and lonely. Social engineering is something scammers are very good at and even intelligent people will fall for them.
I wish there was a way to stop those scammers. So many are hurt by them. One lady in the first episode, lost something like 1.2 million to the same one that was scamming several more. She sold her childhood home and gave him all the money too. It just boggles my mind.
With AI becoming a norm, they are getting better at convincing women and men they are real.
I have those "military" and "oil rig" scammers popping up on my social media and I ignore them or report if that is available. Unfortunately, they just create new names and new "faces."
I was able to stop a friend of mine falling for a "distinguished gentleman in his military uniform" that sent her a message on Instagram and told her she likes Mustangs and travel like he does. I warned her he was a scammer. She almost didn't believe me! Later, she thanked me when I showed her the same photo was sent to me and I did a reverse photo.
If you ever get something like that, do a reverse photo. Be careful out there.
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7 responses
@LindaOHio (190022)
• United States
28 May
As much as I'd like to meet a kindly gentleman, I won't try to find one online. It's too risky.
@JudyEv (354817)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 May
What's a reverse photo? I haven't heard of that before,
@Deepizzaguy (110285)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
28 May
There is an old saying that goes "A fool and money are easily separated."
@mnglsp (3752)
• Philippines
28 May
Thank you for sharing this — it's such an important reminder. Romance scams are heartbreaking, and you're absolutely right: even smart, kind people can fall victim because these scammers are so skilled at emotional manipulation. Good on you for helping your friend — that reverse image search can be a real lifesaver. Stay safe out there, and keep spreading awareness!
@MarieCoyle (44377)
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28 May
I know a lady a few years back who fell for one of those scammers, through facebook. He ''friended'' her...and moved slowly. All those profiles are so alike--either retired military or a retired doctor or lawyer, handsome, standing by a yacht, Oh, and it always says they are a widower. No ex to clutter up the landscape. And there it starts, and doesn't seem to end well. The lady I knew had spent 10K before her daughter found out what she was up to and put a stop to it, luckily it wasn't all the money she had, but still...and she had never formally met this person yet, either. How can anyone be this vulnerable? I know loneliness drives them to this, but...wow.
