Feeling scared, might delete later

The Look
St. Clair, Michigan
June 11, 2025 9:54am CST
Two days ago, I get the welcome letter from the apartments. I finally know my address, which unit is ours, and I’m over the moon with joy. Yesterday, my Dad and I took a drive there to take a peek at our new place. It was really hard to find, all the other residents were nice and really helpful, showing us which way to go. Unfortunately, I realize our unit is in what I’ve named “The Creepy Corner.” The Creepy Corner is that one (or sometimes two) unit(s) that seem to be off to the side, away from everyone else. And to the right you have some huge field instead of other people. You’re pretty isolated, which isn’t always a bad thing, yet I’ve always spotted it in many, many single-unit apartment complexes and can’t say I’m a fan. Don’t worry, it gets worse. Just as we’re about to get out of the truck, a guy comes out of the apartment directly across from ours, takes out a lawn chair, sits down right in the middle of the sidewalk and blocks us, so my Dad and I already have no choice but to walk around him. My Dad gives me a nudge and says, “Make small talk with him, I need to feel this guy out a little.” So I’m all Heyyy how are you? you know all that awkward stuff and he just looks me dead in the eye, no emotion, no answer, just a little smirk on his face. Just staring at me, and almost right through me. So my Dad steps in and takes over and says something like Hey, how ya doing? (Everyone loves my Dad.) He has a way with people. But nope, to my surprise, this guy gives my Dad an even meaner look than he gave me, almost a look like GET OFF MY TURF. We get back in the truck and I say to my Dad I don’t think I’ll feel safe living across from this guy, especially far away from everyone else in the Creepy Corner. And he said, “You know what, Melly? Neither would I. I can’t read him. There’s nothing there to read. Nothing good. I’m all for privacy, but there’s something not right with this one.” WONDERFUL. So today, after work (yayyy, first I get to work) I have to call the prop manager and somehow explain this to her without sounding like a judgmental a-hole. But I can’t be working my butt off and living in a place where I don’t feel safe. I’m sorry, I won’t do it. Sleep is one of the most important things, if not THE most important thing to me. I can’t sleep with one eye open. This guy is gonna mess with my sleep. I just hope and pray we either get put back on the list, even the bottom of the list, or next on the list, because I still like this place. Just not the Creepy Corner with Creepy Guy. Crap! #RentalAdventures Tag stolen from my good friend OceanTiara, I don’t think she’ll mind. Be back later friends x
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@JudyEv (361340)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jun
Goodness, what's wrong with that guy? He sounds like bad news.
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• St. Clair, Michigan
14 Jun
I don’t know, Judy. We’ll never know. Because I will not live directly across from him, it’s just not worth it.
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@moffittjc (125351)
• Gainesville, Florida
11 Jun
We have gut feelings about things for a reason, I think you have validity to your concerns, the guy in the lawn chair does sound very creepy. I would rather see you proceed slowly and get it right than to rush into it and regret it later. I wish you the best of luck, hopefully you will stay at the top of the list and find a better unit within that complex.
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@moffittjc (125351)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Jun
@Melanie_Marie Awesome! I like your brother. He sounds like a good guy.
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• St. Clair, Michigan
15 Jun
@moffittjc He is. You are both good guys. Happy Father’s Day!
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• St. Clair, Michigan
14 Jun
Thanks Jeff, you said exactly what my brother said. I like that. :) According to the property manager, the guy was just being protective. Of what? His lawn chair? My brother said trust your gut. Right now, do you want to take a chance for a year and see if he might possibly be a good guy, just terribly shy, unfriendly, and “protective”? I said I don’t wanna spend one day anywhere near him. And he said well there’s your answer. Stick to that answer, your gut will never steer you wrong. And that was that. TY x
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@AmbiePam (101852)
• United States
11 Jun
I do not blame you. I have been in the creepy corner before complete with creepy neighbor. He turned out to be harmless, but I was always on edge.
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• St. Clair, Michigan
14 Jun
Right! So you get what I’m saying. This guy could be harmless, but how would we ever know? Nothing worse than living on edge, and paying money to do it. That’s not even fair. Amber, I hope you are not still in the Creepy Corner with Creepy Guy. Xx
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@AmbiePam (101852)
• United States
14 Jun
@Melanie_Marie It’s not fair at all to pay money to live on edge, you’re right. After four years, I moved from the Creepy Corner. I have new problems now (although I didn’t the first several years), but none involve someone who looks to be a potential killer. As women, we have to be careful.
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• St. Clair, Michigan
15 Jun
@AmbiePam So true.. I’m wondering if there might always be problems in apartments. They’re kinda like one long house, with everyone attached whether they like it or not. Kinda like the house I’m living in now. Good luck to you and me and hopefully things will settle down.
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@RasmaSandra (88145)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Jun
I agree with you I would want nothing to do with a guy like that, Best of luck to you getting another unit,
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• St. Clair, Michigan
14 Jun
Thanks Rasma, already have another plan in place.
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@paigea (36167)
• Canada
12 Jun
I've had some strange neighbours and annoying neighbours, but none that really creeped me out! You need to feel comfortable.
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• St. Clair, Michigan
14 Jun
This is true. I would rather take a crabby, cranky neighbor over a silent creepy one. You don’t even know what they’re thinking. Thanks paigea
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@porwest (105504)
• United States
14 Jun
Yeah, this would send off a very bad vibe for me too. It's a tough decision, but at the same time, likely a wise one. He's probably harmless, but why take the chance? The world is a very crazy place with a lot of crazy people in it, and if there's one thing I do my absolute best to do, it's to avoid some of the crazy, not walk willingly into it. Best of luck in getting just the right place that's perfect and not so creepy with creepy people making it even creepier.
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• St. Clair, Michigan
14 Jun
Haha I like that ending. Thanks Jim, moving on to another place, a whole different place.
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@porwest (105504)
• United States
14 Jun
@Melanie_Marie Probably for the best. If one area has a bad vibe, it would probably set off a bad vibe for me for the entire place as well.
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@RebeccasFarm (95595)
• Arvada, Colorado
11 Jul
Tag is fine Mels..I messaged you but now I read this I know what he did!! Wow what a nutter!! Nope I wouldn't have taken it either..who knows what he would have done. I am so sorry this was the case..well something better will come along surely. Glad your Dad was there with you too.
@Mshafeeq (2587)
• Kuwait, Kuwait
11 Jun
That's creepy and feels sorry for you.
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• St. Clair, Michigan
14 Jun
Aw thank you M, don’t feel bad. I know I did, at first. Started crying a little when my Dad took me to Culver’s right after that encounter.. but then I just started thinking, planning, and moving forward. Because the answer will never be staying here.