Pushing to something....I am not sure about
By rsa101
@rsa101 (39019)
Philippines
July 11, 2025 12:17am CST
Just wanted to share something that really warmed my heart. Someone here on MyLot recently encouraged me to consider writing a book. I honestly wasn’t expecting that. It’s one thing to write little thoughts and reflections here, but to be told that maybe—just maybe—I could take it further? That really meant a lot.
To that person (you know who you are), thank you. Thank you for seeing something in me that I haven’t fully seen in myself. Your words stuck with me. I’m not sure how or where to begin, but I’m thinking about it. Maybe one day, I’ll find the courage and clarity to make it happen. And if I do, it’ll be because someone believed in me when I was still doubting myself.
Here’s to little nudges that plant big dreams.
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@Rimps85 (2684)
• India
11 Jul
Now some reality check - while it is encouraging to pen down your thoughts/experience etc, it is equally frustrating to become a published author, as the journey isn't a straight path. Unless you know someone from that circle. My cousin is an author & I have seen how frustrated he was, when he couldn't secure a Publisher for his 2nd novel. And by publisher, I mean TRADITIONAL PUBLISHER, where the publisher invests in your work. Else vanity publishing or self-publishing platforms are there to get your work out on shelves in exchange of a hefty fees. But then again, it gets stuck in distribution mess. So, ultimately, writing & publishing a book becomes one of the "ticked" item in your To-Do list. If you really want to become an author, then its not that easy...
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@rsa101 (39019)
• Philippines
11 Jul
That's exactly what I've been thinking about too. Since writing isn't the profession I pursued in my career, it's something I really need to consider carefully. I'm truly grateful to the person who recognized my potential and encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone and try something new. This has happened twice now—once when a former Mylotter pointed it out to me, and then again when someone else challenged me, which I deeply appreciated. I also value the insights you've shared about the realities of being a writer or author. It's definitely something that requires thoughtful consideration right now.
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I just happen to enjoy writing and sharing my thoughts here but in other sites I rarely do this.
@abhi_bangal (6918)
• Ahmednagar, India
11 Jul
Just MY thoughts, if I were in your place I would have mentioned the username and the display name of the user who inspired and encouraged you to write a book, instead of saying you know who you are. I mean this gives a good feeling to that person too. Please don't mind as I am just expressing MY FEELINGS.
Now coming to your topic, yes it is not easy to write a book. We all start discussions, write comments and replies. This is another thing. Many of us write here casually, many of us don't even care about the grammar or the spelling mistakes or the typos (can happen with everyone). We all understand this and move ahead. But none of this has any place in a book.
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@rsa101 (39019)
• Philippines
11 Jul
I share the same thoughts; a book is not something that can be created in just one moment, especially since I’m not a writer myself. What truly inspires me is that someone recognized the potential in my writing and appreciated my ability to take on such a challenge. Right now, I’m deeply reflecting on whether I have the ideas and drive to pursue it.
Regarding the identity of the person, I have already informed her/him about this post. He/She requested not to be mentioned, and I’ve respected him/her wishes by thanking her/him here instead. He/She also expressed that he/she does not plan to reply to this post, and I fully honor his/her decision.
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@abhi_bangal (6918)
• Ahmednagar, India
14h
@rsa101 I didn't know that the person had told you to hide their identity. That's why I had told you so. But whoever it is, I hold that person in high esteem. These days everyone wants to take credit for things that they haven't even done.
I mean not all of them are like that. But I personally know a few such people here.
Coming to the book topic, yes, that's quite a challenging thing. We all have some fantasy, some idea regarding a certain thing. But it's not easy to put them in writing, especially in a book format. I wish you luck and looking forward to your new book soon.
@cacay1 (85170)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Jul
Why don't you try. There are many publishing sites unless it's not your passion to write a book. Start by writing only few pages. Should you want to become a publisher, do it in the Philippines. Write a book needed by schools in the DepEd for example likel the subject math, police report writing book for criminology students, writing across the disciplines and more. After you're through a book submit it to National Bookstore or at Rex Bookstore via IDF or USB. They're going to edit your book before publicising. Two options, 1. to receive a 25 % royalty for the entire sales. They'll be the one to publish and sellh your book school to school, 2, or it's you to sell your book let the bookstore published and pay them.
Why I knew this, I am a book editor of 'Rizal Most Remembered Hero' and 'Antique'. They're published at Rex Bookstore. Don't write a book for someone else interest.
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@MarieCoyle (46160)
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11 Jul
I love your post and your thoughts on this. Many of us have good things to share and we don’t share them for whatever our personal reasons are. Follow your heart and you will find a way. 
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@MarieCoyle (46160)
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19h
@rsa101
I think you can make it true when you feel the time is right. And we never know until we try!
