Sadness.

@TheHorse (228725)
Walnut Creek, California
July 18, 2025 10:36am CST
My most excellent 11-year-old student Gunnar did come to his make-up lesson yesterday. Instead, I gave a double lesson to his younger brother, Ankur. Ankur actually did quite well. Why did Gunnar not make it to his lesson yesterday? Because he is in his bed crying, and refuses to leave his bed. Their 15-year-old dog passed away Wednesday evening, according to Ankur..That dog would have been a part of Gunnar's life since he was born. I hope I get to see him soon. Maybe I'll help him write a sad song for his doggie. We all grieve in our own ways. Have you ever considered the possibility that a part of why we have family pets is to familiarize our children with the process of grieving? Photo is of my late horse,who was with me for 23 years. I cried for days after she died.
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@noni1959 (10488)
• United States
7h
That is sad to hear. It is hard for children to understand at times. Some grieve for a long time. I believe sometimes having pets does help children with the process, but also to teach caring, responsibility and learn unconditional love.
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@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
Agreed.
@wolfgirl569 (119450)
• Marion, Ohio
6h
It is very hard to lose a pet. Especially the first one you have known and loved. I feel for him so much.
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@wolfgirl569 (119450)
• Marion, Ohio
6h
@TheHorse I hope so
@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
4h
@wolfgirl569 I did.It went well. He was very sad at first. But he rallied.
@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
I may get to see the boy today.
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@celticeagle (177155)
• Boise, Idaho
7h
That is so sad. I had a cocker spaniel that was my pal when I was a kid. She was born on the same day I was and lived to be 13. I know how he feels.
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@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
That's a cool story.
@sallypup (65284)
• Centralia, Washington
7h
Very pretty horse. I'm sorry about the passing of the beloved dog.
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@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
I may have a lesson with the boy today.
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• United States
11h
Oh the grief of losing a pet
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@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
10h
Do you know about the "Rainbow Brisdge"?
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• United States
10h
@TheHorse Yes every time we've had to have a pet put down, they give us a copy of that poem
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@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
6h
@LooeyVille I keep a copy in my mandolin case.
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4h
Sorry about your horse She looks a real beauty The kid will get over the dog dying We all have stuff like that to get over
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@TheHorse (228725)
• Walnut Creek, California
4h
She (my horse) passed away about ten years ago. She was over 30 when I took that photo. Gunnar was OK in his lesson today. He started sad,and we did some sad chords. Then we hit our usual rhythm near the end of the lesson.
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3h
@TheHorse 23 years is a long time for you to be part of each other lives . She had a long life, and a good one with you..