The Dude at Casey's

@porwest (112802)
United States
August 11, 2025 7:53am CST
Some people just aren't cut out for certain jobs. I get it. Sometimes someone is just having a bad day. But if you are a front-end person, like a cashier, part of your "professional skillset" is to be cheerful even when you are not feeling it. I set my beer on the counter and Damon rang it up. Not once did he smile, and he barely made any eye contact. "I need to see your ID," he said, in a tone. I have never had to show my ID there before. They just ask me what my birthday is and type it in. I'm 52 and don't look a day younger than 70. lol "No problem," I said and took out my wallet and opened it to the section where my ID sits in a pocket with a see-through window. "You need to hand it to me," he said with a look. "I have to take it out?" I asked, again, not used to having to even present an ID in the past. "I can't scan it if you don't," he said, maintaining his rather foul tone. I took it out and handed it to him and he scanned it, or whatever he did with it, and gave it back to me. Meanwhile, I'd already inserted my card into the POS system and took it out when the terminal prompted me to do so. "That's it," he said. Not thank you. Not we appreciate your business. Not have a nice day. "That's it." Now, normally I don't even ever care if I get a receipt, but usually I am at least asked if I want one. Because of his demeanor from the beginning of my encounter with him, and my own level of irritation increasing, I said, "Do I not get a receipt?" He generated one and handed it to me and I left the store. I did make it a point to take the survey and called him out. His name is on the receipt. I don't want to get the guy fired, but I made it a point to say on the survey that a front-end personality requires a certain demeanor, and this guy isn't cut out for that, and perhaps he should be moved to a back line position or not work there at all. It takes years to build a loyal customer, but only seconds to lose one.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
11 Aug
Perhaps his wife asked for a divorce that same morning before he left for work.
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@porwest (112802)
• United States
11 Aug
Hell. Who knows? Either way, it shouldn't matter. When you work with the public, you have to put on your happy face even if it kills you.
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@TheHorse (238284)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Sep
Heh. Hard to know if someone is having a "bad day" or a "bad life."
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@porwest (112802)
• United States
6 Sep
@TheHorse Or, in some cases, they make it quite obvious. I would suspect that this guy is not exactly on the top tier of the totem pole in life.
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@LindaOHio (222285)
• United States
13 Aug
I usually ask a sour clerk if they are having a bad day. It usually turns them 360 in attitude.
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@LindaOHio (222285)
• United States
14 Aug
@porwest Yup. They usually feel embarrassed.
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@porwest (112802)
• United States
13 Aug
Hmm. Maybe I will try that next time. I can see where asking that question may catch them quite off guard.
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@TheHorse (238284)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Sep
I assume you mean 180. 360 leaves you right where you started.
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@noni1959 (13035)
• United States
12 Aug
He may be having an off day but all people that work in public, need to learn to still give good friendly service. I know it's not easy.
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@porwest (112802)
• United States
12 Aug
That's the key here. You have to put on a happy face no matter what your day is really like. That's your JOB.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
20 Aug
That's a great price for gas! Guess he was not voted the one with a Million Dollar Smile in H.S. Obviously, he is not looking to make a career out of working at Casey's.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
23 Aug
@porwest I got gas for $2.85 last week. Fortunately, it is only 10 minutes away. Will have go back to Casey's again or go elsewhere?
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@porwest (112802)
• United States
23 Aug
@dgobucks226 I think I paid around that in Memphis and also in Nashville when we were there over the week. It's about that across the river too.
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@porwest (112802)
• United States
22 Aug
If only that was a recent picture. lol. Right now we can get gas across the river for under $3 a gallon, but here on our side it's been averaging around $3.27 for about a month. As for "this guy," I don't think he has much of a future doing anything. I have always said, no matter what job I have ever had, you put your best into it regardless. If your attitude is good in a crappy job, it will be even better in a good one.
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