Do people really care about you?
@YuleimaVzla (1879)
Maracaibo, Venezuela
September 5, 2025 2:27pm CST
Today I had a conversation with a person and on several occasions I heard from other people the same phrase that says "nobody cares about the things that happen to you" there really is less humanity in People? Have people always been like this, or is it something modern?There are many people who, as advice, tell me to never tell anything to people because they are not really interested in what happens to you, good or bad, that everyone lives their own life and I was busy for you so it makes me question is that right or do you think it's wrong?
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@allknowing (153542)
• India
6 Sep
There is no second opinion on this People are no longer interested to know what is happening in the life of others.
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@allknowing (153542)
• India
6 Sep
@YuleimaVzla The world has changed. I can see that among my neighbours. Sometimes it is months that we do not see each other
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@YuleimaVzla (1879)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
6 Sep
Sometimes I insist on knowing what's happening to people when I haven't heard from them for a while, even when they've worked for me.The fact that they don't do it anymore doesn't mean that they greet them, but it seems that they have no interest in knowing about others.
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@YuleimaVzla (1879)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
6 Sep
@allknowing Totally in fact here people my neighbors don't like We only say good morning to each other when we pass each other on the street.They like even less that people know what happens in their homes or if someone in their family is sick as if that were a sin.If you ask about someone's health, they give you a bad answer, and if you don't ask, they say you're a bad neighbor. How strange.
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@snowy22315 (196032)
• United States
5 Sep
I feel I definitely care more about others than they do about me. It is pretty disheartening.
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@YuleimaVzla (1879)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
6 Sep
I applied a strategy that my friends told me: worry about those who worry about you and don't look for those who don't want to be looked for. There are wonderful people who really have emotional value.
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@snowy22315 (196032)
• United States
6 Sep
@YuleimaVzla The problem is some who don't want to be looked for I happen to love
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@YuleimaVzla (1879)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
6 Sep
@snowy22315 That's why in this community we are like a rare species that gathers here and I say rare in the sense that we all take each other into account when out there in society everyone goes their own way.
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@AmbiePam (102913)
• United States
5 Sep
I think there are many people who still care about others. I see it a lot, but that may be because I live in a friendly state. When I look beyond here, I do see a lack of caring, but care and concern isn’t all gone. I still see it on Mylot.
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@YuleimaVzla (1879)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
6 Sep
I think I could even say that this is what has kept us united in Mylot. I think we're a rare breed of people who still say good morning, wonder how your day was, and worry if you're okay.And it's something that you can't see out there in real life even though we are real.
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@Orson_Kart (7752)
• United Kingdom
8 Sep
I used to care about other people a lot, now not so much. I think I ended up giving much more than I was receiving and it was bugging me. It might be just down to age, but I just let others get on with their lives and I just concentrate on myself.
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@YuleimaVzla (1879)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
8 Sep
Could it be that it is an obligatory part of our immaturity from certain years ago when everything that others thought was so relevant? And in fact, many of us were affected by that acceptance, that lack of affection, when you really mature, you manage to see how things are.
@DaddyEvil (159659)
• United States
7 Sep
There are still people who care but they are getting harder and harder to find in our real lives. I think people are getting pulled in so many directions that they forget to make sure those they know and care about know they care about them.
Of course, that's just my own opinion.
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@DaddyEvil (159659)
• United States
8 Sep
@YuleimaVzla I used to have a large circle of friends that I visited with often. During the pandemic, they started moving away to find work and now, are too far away to see very often. I'm still in contact with some of them but only by phone or text.
@YuleimaVzla (1879)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
8 Sep
And you're absolutely right, that's why our circle of friends is getting smaller and smaller. When we are teenagers we have many friends but as we grow up we realize that friends can sometimes be counted on one hand.And yes, dear, there are people who still ask about you with all the concern in the world to know how you feel.
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