Better Off Doesn’t Mean Better Than: Your address doesn’t make you superior—your attitude does.

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United States
November 15, 2025 10:18am CST
To those who feel entitled: there’s a difference between being ‘better off’ and thinking you’re ‘better than.’ Attitude matters. Regardless of whether you pay note-rate rent in USDA Section 515 Rural Rental (62+) Senior Housing or live in a million dollar home, attitude matters. You think you’re better than someone who lives at ‘Senior Meadows’ because you live on Lakeside Drive. Meanwhile, the residents at Senior Meadows who pay $860 a month (where full-market value is actually closer to $2,000) think they’re better than their subsidized neighbors, too. These same people also think they are better because they don’t receive a subsidy—fail to acknowledge they live in low-income senior housing, too. That is partially why they also love to push out the disabled—not because those people are often younger, but because they are seen as ‘worth less.’ Or perhaps even ‘entitled’ instead. After all, they can get the subsidies and often other benefits, too. And, God forbid, their disability is invisible.” ‘Out of sight, out of mind,’ does not apply.
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@FourWalls (80231)
• United States
3h
Amen!!! This is a very needed discussion, thank you!
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• United States
2h
My pleasure. Yes, it is definitely needed. I wish management and staff at 62+ complexes were trained better, so they would stop dismissing bullying and harassment as "tenant on tenant." Age and disability discrimination are not "personality conflicts." Anyone who thinks they are is a bully, too.
@AmbiePam (106266)
• United States
3h
I really appreciate this post.
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• United States
3h
Thank you. It also drives me crazy how many people living in 62+ also can't get it through their thick heads that the note-rate rent for all tenants (in one-bedrooms) is $860, it's just that those with subsities pay 30% of their monthly income toward the rent, and the federal government covers the rest.
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@RebeccasFarm (90747)
• Arvada, Colorado
37m
'They' someday will rue the day that they thought they were better Chelle. Any day now, their imagined superiority can be cut short pronto. Little do they know.