Unhappy Tuesday
By Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (9237)
Calcutta, India
November 18, 2025 9:32am CST
I might nag a bit but please bear with me because this is the only place I get to nag and nobody is judgmental about that.
My boyfriend and I have a long-distance relationship mostly. Well, it takes around 20 minutes from his house to visit mine. He has come to his house 2-3 times now but all for short periods of time (maybe like for 5-6 days or even 2 days). He hasn't visited once, and that is making me disappointed. It's not like he doesn't go out. He goes out to do grocery shopping and stuff but doesn't visit me. He says that he is busy. Sometimes I feel like he might not be into me. When someone is in love, he/she makes that person the first priority in their lives. He doesn't miss me, I think.
Anyways, how is your Tuesday?
My boyfriend and I have a long-distance relationship mostly. Well, it takes around 20 minutes from his house to visit mine. He has come to his house 2-3 times now but all for short periods of time (maybe like for 5-6 days or even 2 days). He hasn't visited once, and that is making me disappointed. It's not like he doesn't go out. He goes out to do grocery shopping and stuff but doesn't visit me. He says that he is busy. Sometimes I feel like he might not be into me. When someone is in love, he/she makes that person the first priority in their lives. He doesn't miss me, I think.
Anyways, how is your Tuesday?5 people like this
5 responses
@DaddyEvil (161802)
• United States
12h
I'm sorry that's happening but maybe he really is busy... Getting groceries is a necessity. It's not like he's out joyriding and ignoring you.
Uhh... here, that wouldn't be considered a long-distance relationship. When I was a teenager and had a girlfriend 2 hours away by car, THAT was a long-distance relationship. Or when she went to college 800 miles/1,287 km, that was a long-distance relationship. (We talked on the phone every few days when she wasn't in class and wasn't too tired to talk. I'd wait until she called me so I was sure I wasn't interrupting anything she needed to be doing more than talking with me.)
People in movies who have other people to do everything for them can act like you're describing but it rarely happens like that in real life.
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@Dreamerby (9237)
• Calcutta, India
11h
Oh I forgot to mention...he is actually in a different city 115 km from here. He comes to his house on holidays or whenever he gets time.
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@DaddyEvil (161802)
• United States
6h
@Dreamerby If you really think he's ignoring you, then I'd talk to him about it and see what he says.
I don't want you to be unhappy and he shouldn't want that, either. 
@snowy22315 (198861)
• United States
12h
Nothing special. I would say when someone shows you who they are believe them the first time. You are right, if you were important to him he would make the time.
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@JudyEv (365598)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
Can you talk to him about it? Maybe it is really difficult for him to visit.
@Shivram59 (46003)
• India
10h
I think , he is really busy, otherwise I don't see any reason why he does not meet you. Try to believe him. I feel so.
