Today's starting off well.
@kaylachan (81714)
Daytona Beach, Florida
November 21, 2025 10:52am CST
George and I got up about the same time we always have, despite him being up an extra hour last night. There's leaking coming from the stoma, but I was told to expect that. Especially on the first day. Later this afternoon, I can take off the dressing and we can clean the area, if needed. But, otherwise leave it open to air and left alone. It should heal on it's own.
George is sipping on Pepsi, but waited until this morning to ask for it. So, that's a good thing. He also asked for some yogert, too. And I'll see if I can get him taking other things as well. Despite having no tube, he said he felt full. I like hearing that.
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@kareng (79873)
• United States
23 Nov
@kaylachan Hope things are progressing in a positive way there.
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@kaylachan (81714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Nov
@kareng He has ups and downs, but I think the leaking is starting to tapper off. I just have to get George to leave it alone, because he wants to scratch at it and rub at it.
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@kaylachan (81714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Nov
I think his stomach, if anything, has gotten bigger. When you bypass the swollow system you're pumping stuff directly into the stomach. it can enlarge that way. But like I've been telling dctors and nurses, I can't reasse bad eating habits.
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@celticeagle (184165)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Nov
Sounds like you have it all figured out and am doing fine. Both of you. Glad he has a bit of an appetite. I hope all goes well with the healing.
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@celticeagle (184165)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Nov
@kaylachan .......It's important to keep the VA in the know. At least he is eating and drinking.
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@kaylachan (81714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Nov
@celticeagle Yeah, I meant to send a message on friday, but George's also thinking about going to Hummna-approved local providers, and using Walgreens I guess for his meds, but we haven't made the switch, yet.
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@kaylachan (81714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Nov
Well, I would've really pushed a little harder if we took out the tube too soon. If things had worked out for us months ago, when his oral intake was near-zero, then I would've had to push harder. But, it's back to where it was before the stroke, and I don't see it changing. I'll need to let the nutrition department at the va know.
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@kaylachan (81714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Nov
@LadyDuck The hardest part, is getting George to talk to me.
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@RasmaSandra (92673)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Nov
Sounds like the healing process has begun, Glad he got sunshine today and I wish you both a good start to the weekend,
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@kaylachan (81714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Nov
He keeps trying I'll give him that.
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@LindaOHio (210293)
• United States
22 Nov
I hope you and George have a good weekend.
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@xstitcher (37384)
• Petaluma, California
21 Nov
Hope things continue to go well.
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