Youtube shorts tend to surpise me. This is about not getting the love from your parents

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Not supporting Youtube. The message is parents should be forgiven for not loving us the way we needed. Instead, we should forgive ourselves for finding love at the wrong places and that we should start healing. I paraphrased it. Some people answered they can't forgive just for the sake of forgiving. Others said their parents are gone so they had no chance but to forgive. Some, sadly, wish their parents could just die already. Some wrote that God healed them and showed them the way. It's hard to mention religion in this context too and to include it or not. Some still have traumas and are focused on their own families and such. What's your take? Is it okay to forgive but not forget or neither? Is it okay to let go just so the others can feel better? Are we selfish for not forgiving? We could debate this for a long time, I feel.