Feeling like a Vulture But It Has To Be Done
By LooeyVille
@LooeyVille (42)
United States
January 18, 2026 4:32pm CST
Mother-in-Law will be moving to a Memory Care facility in just a week and she can only take 1/3 of her most essential belongings.
That leaves an apartment full of furniture and household items that need good homes.
So I've made a list of everything MIL owns and texted it to the brother-in-law for he and his wife and kids to mark whatever they want and "call dibs" on it now because we have such a short turnaround time and anything the family doesn't want has to be donated to charity.
It feels a little vulture-ish, but what is the alternative? It's very practical to make the list and hand out the items to people who want them.
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7 responses
@LindaOHio (211150)
• United States
1h
Once everyone takes what they want, Goodwill or the Salvation Army will come and empty out the house. There is also an organization called Re-Store which is run by Habitat for Humanity which will take furniture, etc.
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@GardenGerty (167282)
• United States
13h
I am trying to get my mind around the logistics of getting her there and getting her things there without her being disturbed by things going missing. As far as being a vulture, you are not. If you were YOU would be calling dibs on things. You and hubby are being the facilitators.
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@FourWalls (82055)
• United States
9h
I know you feel bad about doing it but it must be done.

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@DaddyEvil (165861)
• United States
6h
You aren't being a vulture... You're doing essential things she'd have to do herself if she mentally could manage it. Honestly, you're being a really good daughter-in-law.
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@Ineeddentures (13625)
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11h
I think that you have done the right thing.
Hope that it all goes well
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@kaylachan (82040)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13h
Well it isn't really. It's the smart thing to do. just make sure mother in law knows, even if she'll forget later.
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