Women's Lives in the Victorian Era ~ Fashion and Ettiquette for Men

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Women went from the full bell-shaped skirts, tight bodices and high necklines. The skirt was supported by many petticoats. In 1850 it was the cage crinoline, and later in about 1870 it was the bustle. Men wore dark tailored suits with vests. Men lived in a world of restraint, effortless grace and discretion. They never initiated contact with unfamiliar women. They always tipped their hats to women on the street and took them off when inside. When introduced to a woman they gave a light handshake and bowed slightly. Unless the woman initiates, they cannot approach or greet a woman on the street. They must always show respect to elders and superiors. They needed to maintain an appearance of effortless grace and discretion in both public and private situations. Conversation should always be light, never vulgar, no gossiping or talking about themselves. At public affairs a man would never offer to escort a lady home unless they are closely acquainted. A woman is never left unattended. Men and women much keep within their social classes at all times. When a young man is invited to a dinner, he must be sure to be on time for being late is social blunder that is hard to overcome. They must never dress too flashy. There are many rules regarding table manners which must be adhered to. Which utensil to use, not using the napkin for a handkerchief. They should never act bored, always practice self-control and avoid vanity. Next, it's marriage and dowries. Oh my.