I need to speak firmly to my pumpkin plants

@JudyEv (382658)
Rockingham, Australia
April 3, 2026 7:42pm CST
I wrote about the giant palm tree that has separate male and female trees. Pumpkins have male and female flowers. I was researching why it might be that I have no baby pumpkins on my vines. Apparently, the male flowers appear first to attract the bees then, some time later, the female flowers appear. The females have a little swelling or ovary at the base of the flower. That’s how you tell the difference. So far, I’ve seen quite a few male flowers but no females. The plants have been in the ground for at least several months. I’m sure they should be fruiting by now. And here I was thinking pumpkins were easy to grow. Well, these have been easy to grow but I’d really like some pumpkins to eat. The pumpkins in the image are ones I grew in Donnybrook.
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@DaddyEvil (174749)
• United States
4 Apr
Poor pumpkin flowers... If you're a male, people don't think very much of you...
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@DaddyEvil (174749)
• United States
5 Apr
@JudyEv True... I honestly think men should let women rule the world. They can't do any worse than men have done and hopefully, it would be an improvement. I have met a few women who would/could do much worse than some men, too, though.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
And yet they rule the world basically. I guess if you rule the world you don't need people to think much of you.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Apr
@DaddyEvil I do think women have a bit more empathy and compassion even when they are in the top jobs. Certainly not all women are cut out to lead.
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@rakski (156914)
• Philippines
4 Apr
That's is the reason I don't plant much.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
I think I might be joining you in not planting much.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Apr
@rakski Did you scold them instead of talking nicely? Vince says when he was young if the chooks (hens) stopped laying, his Dad would shake an axe at them and threaten to cut off their heads and they would start laying again.
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@AmbiePam (121253)
• United States
5 Apr
That’s fascinating information.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
Thanks. It was new to me.
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• China
4 Apr
Pumpkins' male flowers bloom 3-5 days earlier than the female flowers do to avoid inbreeding.
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• China
5 Apr
@JudyEv Hope the link below helps
https://augardening.com/why-my-pumpkin-only-have-male-flowers/
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Apr
@changjiangzhibin89 Thanks for the link. I've recently put sheep manure round the plants so maybe there is too much nitrogen in the soil. I'll keep speaking kindly to them and hope it helps.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
That''s basically what I read but the male flowers have been appearing for ages without any sign of female ones.
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@wolfgirl569 (136063)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Apr
I hope you see some soon
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
That's what I'm hoping.
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@LindaOHio (222898)
• United States
4 Apr
I'm sorry you're not having any luck with your pumpkins.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
I thought I was safe choosing pumpkins to grow.
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@kaylachan (84924)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Apr
Planting sure takes patience.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
It does indeed.
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@crossbones27 (53005)
• Mojave, California
4 Apr
So male pumpkins have it just as bad as male humans. Come on that was funny.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
Yep, I'm laughing.