So civilised. Now I’m happy.

@xFiacre (14677)
Ireland
April 9, 2026 8:04pm CST
I was pleased yesterday when I took a seat in a seaside cafe a few miles along the coast from where we live. My expectations were low of course, and I ordered tea and a slice of coffee and walnut cake with an ominous anxiety churning in the pit of my stomach. Was this outing going to disappoint? The girl who took my order was pleasant, efficient and courteous so we got off to a good start. The few other customers were dignified, respectable and kept their conversation within the bounds of their own tables, only the lowest hum of talk drifting in my direction, and I could not make out the content of their tête-à-têtes. Things were looking up. The young man who delivered my tea and cake to the table by the large window overlooking the sea was friendly, just the right amount of chit chat, didn’t spill anything, and seemed genuinely pleased to have got everything right. The coffee and walnut cake did not disappoint, but what really made the experience just right was that the tea arrived in a silver teapot, was brewed from loose leaves (Assamese) and a tea strainer was provided. I do like it when all these little things come together, a happy concinnity of service, style and silverware. I’ll be back. And they had nice toilets.
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10 Apr
Excellent You would be impressed in my house Loose tea leaves, nice silver tea pot , tea strainer Always a nice cake available, Good conversation And a sparkling clean bathroom with lovely guest towels Please do visit. Tea is free , cake too
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@jstory07 (148392)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Apr
That would be nice.
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10 Apr
@jstory07 You should come for tea as well Judy
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@jstory07 (148392)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Apr
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@DaddyEvil (173656)
• United States
10 Apr
I'm glad you enjoyed the outing.
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@AmbiePam (119195)
• United States
10 Apr
You certainly are a particular fella. However, the world would certainly be very civilized if it ran by your preferences.
@jstory07 (148392)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Apr
What a nice experience you had. Good food and drink who could ask for more.
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@JudyEv (379821)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Apr
You really hit the jackpot with that outing, didn't you?
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@xFiacre (14677)
• Ireland
10 Apr
@JudyEv It’s near Portmuck.
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@JudyEv (379821)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Apr
@xFiacre I remember Portmuck with affection.
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@LindaOHio (220852)
• United States
10 Apr
I'm so glad everything was to your liking. Clean restrooms are a big plus for me.
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@xFiacre (14677)
• Ireland
10 Apr
@LindaOhio Clean, functioning and respectable restrooms are essential for any outing. Why don’t all cafe/restaurant owners get it?
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@LindaOHio (220852)
• United States
11 Apr
@xFiacre I don't know. Some are disgusting.