Thongs away.

@xFiacre (14666)
Ireland
May 9, 2026 10:05am CST
My wife takes to do with her 91 year old aunt with dementia who lives in a care home but doesn’t really know where she is. Recently she went through the lady’s clothes, removing old items and replacing them with new clothes she had bought her aunt. She also sewed name tags onto the clothes. However, as happens, there were other clothes in there too with other residents’ names on them. In the underwear drawer she was a bit astounded to unearth a thong. Yes, a thong, not designed for comfort I’m told. What was that doing on an old lady’s knicker drawer? The was no way aunty would ever have entertained wearing such an item at any point in her life, so my wife rolled her eyes and assumed that the staff had mixed up her clothes with someone else’s. Then she wondered which of the other 91 year old ladies with dementia in the home would be missing a lacy thong. It really was a bit of a mystery, and I can only think that a staff member must have placed the thong there as a joke, and an elderly lady’s dignity is not a joking matter. Quite a cruel joke if that’s what happened. The thong has been binned and decorum restored. For now.
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@noni1959 (12965)
• United States
10 May
Those things are like wearing floss. I hope it was a joke. Then again, there are some elderly that like to wear the "girlie" things. I have an 80 year-old friend who wears them. I asked doesn't she feel murphed all the time?
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@JudyEv (379761)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 May
There must be a lot of happenings in such a home that are hard to explain.
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@AmbiePam (119100)
• United States
9 May
That’s actually unsettling. Who would mess around like that?
@xFiacre (14666)
• Ireland
9 May
@AmbiePam My father was usually dressed in other people’s clothes in the nursing home even though they were clearly labelled. Stuff I bought him appeared on other men. How hard can it be to sort laundry correctly?
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@AmbiePam (119100)
• United States
9 May
@xFiacre That’s just laziness.
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@xFiacre (14666)
• Ireland
9 May
@AmbiePam I also tried to explain the difference between knocking BEFORE entering his room and knocking WHILE entering. Wasted breath.
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@celticeagle (188773)
• Boise, Idaho
9 May
Does someone do several tenants laundries at this facility? Perhaps they got confused.
@celticeagle (188773)
• Boise, Idaho
21h
@xFiacre ........but the staff probably does.
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@xFiacre (14666)
• Ireland
9 May
@celticeagle I don’t think too many 91 year old people in a care home with dementia wear thongs.
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@LindaOHio (220797)
• United States
10 May
When my husband was in rehab, the laundry was messed up quite a few times. He received several pieces of clothing that weren't his.