Sometimes, breaking the cycle of violence begins with with saying No

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This woman has endured repeated cycle of violence in her marriage. Whenever they have a disagreement, her husband beats and locks her out for the night unconcerned about where she sleeps. The next day, he goes to her shop and takes out the items he had bought for her. After they make up, he gives the things back to her. The last time they had a misunderstanding, he not only beat but also threw her things out for the first time. He is now begging her to come back. He is even crying and everyone around them is pleading with her on his behalf but she is consistently saying "nah, i ain't coming back. We're done". I don't interfere in marital affairs nor do I give advice but deep down, I admire the lady for saying she ain't going back cos I woulda done the same thing if i were in her shoes. I feel that going back will just re start the same painful cycle . Staying away for good is the smartest and safest thing she can do. Her decision to stand her ground shows strength not stubbornness. Sometimes, breaking the cycle of violence begin with saying no and staying away.