Do you decorate graves?

We do not decorate graves in my family. My first grandparent passed in December one year. There was just a mound of dirt, no grass covering it and no stone until the following spring. That first 6 months or so, we had to visit the grave and leave flowers on a regular basis. One time we went, and left a wreath of flowers, and my uncle called and asked if we had gone to visit her grave, and then he told my mother that she had left them on someone else's grave. She felt awful, but made my Dad drive all of the way to that cemetery and made him (not her) grab the wreath and put it into the car and drive it down a few rows to put it out there.

My family has never done that

Not on Memorial Day but one time when I was up in PA for some spring holiday I decorated my grandparents's graves.

I do my parents and sons after memorial day

Usually about a couple of times in Latvia we would bring some flowers to the grave where Martin's mom and dad were, My parents are in the countryside and we could not get there too often,

Since my relatives who are deceased live far away from Louisiana, my relatives and myself do not decorate their graves.

I don't know who would do that sort of thing... that'd be hard to deal with, I am sure. We always have for long as I can remember, and still do with my aunt every year. It's always a big job because we decorate 10 of them now I believe